(Closed) When should I ask bridesmaids?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: When should I ask friends to be bridesmaids?
    Your wedding is to far off to even be concerned with bridesmaids - wait awhile. : (4 votes)
    29 %
    Ask them now, before you move away. : (6 votes)
    43 %
    Other - see response below. : (4 votes)
    29 %
  • Post # 3
    33 posts
    • Wedding: October 2010

    If you know that you are surely going to ask your two best friends then I would ask them right away. Before you move. I would wait though, on asking the rest of your BM’s. Though no would, would ever like to think that things change over time.. things do. So with having a big move coming up, as you do I would wait. If you have someone that you are a little closer with then the rest of the girls and fear that you may not stay in touch and by asking her it will help your friendship..then do it. I am experiencing the same thing right now. Three of my BM’s now live in other states, and though one of the girls, whom I went to High School with, I’m not as close with today as then, I still asked. It’s awkward at times, because we don’t talk that often, but when she comes home we are inseperable. If you fear for your friendships then just remember to try extra hard to make the effort, for things to work. It will all be okay in the end, and who knows maybe you will make another friend once you move. You can never have too many:) Best of Luck!

    Post # 4
    531 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I say ask the two girls, but as for the others- wait until your closer to planning.

    Post # 6
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would wait before asking the others. You never know who you’ll become close to in the next two years and who you’ll lose touch with (excluding your best friends 🙂 ).

    Post # 7
    16216 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    It may be best to wait a bit so you don’t end up in a sticky situation a year or so from now…

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