Post # 1
When starting relationships, were you ever afraid ahead of time it might not last? Do people have this type of thinking? Or do they just accept it as a potential possibility? Is this a bad sign or does it mean you can still see reality? Or does it just mean you don’t want to lose the other person?
Post # 3
@savychic1616: I have a pretty strong fear of abandonment so I have a tendency to think this of all my relationships (romantic or friendship)
ETA: I get over it, but it’s always something that crosses my mind, kind of a defense mechanism.
Post # 4
@savychic1616: I was a bit concerned that it wouldn’t work out. I had a HUGE crush on my boyfriend from the moment we first met. He was already in a relationship at the time though and we didn’t get to know one another well until after that. This was my first relationship though, so I think it was natural for me to worry a bit. It’s worked out for 5 years though, so I guess it was a little silly to worry!