Post # 1
My best friend of over 16 years is now my maid of honor and She has never even met my future husband. We got engaged early july and called her right away. I havent seen her or head from her yet. I call or facebook or text and she says shes working or has to go to a football game and has no time off to do any activities with the other girls in the wedding party. When do you cut someone loose from your wedding party.
Post # 3
I think it’s still a little early to consider cutting her as a bridesmaid/MOH. Your wedding is still a ways off, and while, of course it is one of the most important things in your life, you have to realize that it isn’t the most important thing in hers, or any of your bridesmaids’ lives for that matter. How did she act when you asked her? Was she excited/enthusiastic? If so, I’d give her some more time to get excited about wedding related activities. As your date gets closer, set up a rough timeline for when you will get dresses, etc and float it to your girls, then if people seem like they aren’t able to be a part of everything you want them to be a part of, revisit the issue.