(Closed) When to give a +1 ?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: You should give a +1 to:
    Anyone in a steady relationship : (12 votes)
    26 %
    Family/friends who won't know anyone else in attendance : (11 votes)
    24 %
    Only those who are living together/married : (0 votes)
    Only those who are engaged/living together/married : (2 votes)
    4 %
    Cousin (21) who doesn't date traditionally, but is in an open relationship with two men. : (5 votes)
    11 %
    Eight non-immediete relatives (18-32) who aren't in relationships. : (6 votes)
    13 %
    High school year, not in a relationship. Attending with family. : (3 votes)
    7 %
    Two male bosses (brothers, 29 and 34) who are attending with their parents and sister. : (6 votes)
    13 %
    Other... ?? : (1 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6365 posts
    Bee Keeper

    If the guest is over 16 and you don’t 100% know the name of the person they would like to accompany them. (Name names where possible and invite under-16s together with their parents).

    Post # 4
    Member
    3281 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We gave +1s to everyone. It depends on capacity/budget. If you have room give them all +1s, if not then don’t. And I’d give the cousin one +1. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    6365 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @OnceUponATime:  Yes, when names are not known (e.g., I wouldn’t invite Mrs. X “+1” if I had good reason to believe she was bringing Mr. X, I would name them both). I would reduce the named guestlist if I thought cost would be an issue.

    Post # 7
    Member
    252 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I had this problem too and I wouldve loved to give everyone who was in a relationship a plus one but my are hosting so they made the rules and we ended up with anyone living together/engaged/married/dating for longer than a year or two.

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