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When to give hostess gifts?

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    Amani    March 27, 2010  

    3 of my BMs are throwing me a shower - yay!  Should I bring gifts for hosting to the shower, or is it fine to wait and give them the gifts later?  On the one hand, I'd like to give them the gifts the day of the shower.  On the other, it seems a little strange to walk into my shower holding gifts for a shower that technically hasn't happened yet...

     
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    Amani    March 27, 2010  

    anyone?

     
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    mtnshine    October 2, 2010  

    Hi! So, I don't know the answer from personal experience, but my SIL gave them at the shower. She just brought them in a bag and gave them to the ladies at the end of the shower in front of everyone. It didn't seem awkward at all. She said something nice and it was very sweet.

    Come to think of it, I think she did the same thing for her baby shower too.

    Hope that helps!

     
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    AzinAugust    August 2010   Sedona, AZ

    I'm giving mine to my FSIL (the hostess) when I get to my shower. :o) Hope that helps

     
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    pinkmonkee    5/15/2010   Orange County, California

    I haven't done it yet but I will be giving my Hostesses their gifts at the end of the shower when mostly everyone has left.  I will probably just keep them in the car until the end.  I don't really know the etiquette on this but that is how I have seen it done a few times before.

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    I posted about this yesterday too -- I have NO idea. And what are you supposed to do if the Shower's a suprise? I have no idea who's really involved & how much. How do I know who to buy for?

     
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    heatherlynn    February 22, 2010  

    What do people typically give for hostess gifts? I'd love to do this! My shower was supposed to be a secret but it sort of slipped and I now know that it's some time at the end of March! cant wait :-)

     
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    Wait a sec - I had no idea I was supposed to give the hostess a gift??

    I never got anything from my bff for hosting her shower last summer, and I definitely wasn't planning on giving FI's aunt a gift for hosting my shower in a few months (I was going to write a thank you card, I write thank yous for EVERYTHING). 

    What sort of gift should I be giving??  I think I miss the boat on a lot of this ettiquette stuff!

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    I gave my hostesses gifts right at the end of the events.

     
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    Amani    March 27, 2010  

    hmmm....looks like i need to come up w/ gifts...and quickly!  thanks, ladies.

     
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    RachelD    September 17, 2011   Central NY

    @Dancy905:  Some of my mom's friends hosted a shower for me and I had to ask her who exactly were the names of the women hosting.  I ended up buying a $6 bottle of wine and a cute bag, and tying a cute little "thank you" charm with ribbon around the neck.

     
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    RachelD    September 17, 2011   Central NY

    For the other showers that my friends & family hosted, my goal in my hostess gifts were to get something thats practical.  I went to the Dollar Store and got little tote bags rather than gift bags.  I filled them with some organic fair trade lotion and soap from the natural foods store. (I can't stand cosmetics with all the fake chemicals and harsh scents!)  I also included a small umbrella from the Dollar Store and included a thank you note that said, "here are a few things in case of a shower and to use in your shower"

     
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    winklkr    November 5, 2011   Gurnee, IL (destination wedding on Sanibel Island, FL)

    I brought my hostess gifts to the shower.  There were 7 hostesses and I spent just under $25 per gift.  It included a mason jar brownie mix, a 6 oz bottle of Philosophy shower gel, a $10 Starbucks gift card, and a thank you card.

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