- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
…what gets you out of it?
…what gets you out of it?
Watching my favourite movies. Going out for coffee and a walk with FI. Buying new stuff for the house. Or new clothes.
cuddling with my FI or doing a workout or shopping.
Almost always a hard workout. Ane because I cant make myself workout very hard when I am down in the dump I have to take a cross fit class that pushes me. Post shower I am a whole knew me.
A great big hug/squeeze from my husband! Seriously.
Snuggling with my animals, having a good cry, sitting outside when it is nice out, eating a really delicious meal, ice cream, cookies, a mani/pedi, a massage, putting on a record and dancing around the house, going for a drive in my husbands convertible
Oh, also… getting a mani/pedi and just being pampered for a bit.
Work out can be good. But I also love listening to music that makes me happy….songs that I love and can sing out loud to, and force myself to dance around a bit 🙂 That….or a couple glasses of wine and some reaaallly trashy reality tv.
Not knowing what my problem is could be the problem, LOL.
Life is just sucky lately. I was this way the week before last and just going through the motions and finally got out of it last week and now I’m back. We had DH’s friend and his GF over this weekend. She asked me about my hobbies and well I don’t have many. There are things that I would like to do but they cost money and we are having to be cheap lately and for quiet some time lately so I don’t do much to be honest. I’ve been cooking a WHOLE lot more and trying different things as an espace to work (which absolutely sucks and I can’t wait until I get out of here, which is one definite reason I am down). Another hobby is being a home owner, LOL. We’ve spent a lot of time trying to make it home and take care of what the previous owners didn’t. I had finally gotten “comfortable” about my hobbies, even if some think they are lame. I also read. This just got me down. THEN I realized, I have absolutely no friends, which is quiet funny because of the two “friends” posts today. If I had to call someone to come get me because my car broke down, I have 1 set of grandparents and my husband. I thought I had a friend at work but that has gone sour so I’ve been slowly drifting apart and only dealing with her at work and not outside of life. I’ve always lost friends when they move on to the next stage in life so after getting burned, I decided to not put much effort (what I mean is in the past, I was always the one to set up ‘dates’ and events and they usually flaked) as to not have it be so one sided but look where that has gotten me? I’ve always said I would rather have no friends than to have more one sided relationships but it sucks just the same. I’ve looked in meetup.com and there isn’t really anything local. I’m looking into local classes to spark an interest in something.
@Gerbera: A hug usually does help.
You ladies give me hope. I’m thinking dinner and a movie tonight. Dh will groan but whatev.
Watching the Office….if that can’t make me smile….well let’s just say that’s never happened! Or when DH is goofy/silly to make me laugh 🙂 Hugging my cat and/or dog.
The topic ‘When you are down in the dump…’ is closed to new replies.