When you are together in a car, who does most of the driving?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: When we are in a car together:
    I do most of the driving : (34 votes)
    8 %
    He does most of the driving : (142 votes)
    34 %
    We split it 50:50 : (26 votes)
    6 %
    We take my car usually : (59 votes)
    14 %
    We take his car usually : (58 votes)
    14 %
    We take both cars equally : (27 votes)
    7 %
    We only have one car : (38 votes)
    9 %
    I drive he doesn't : (8 votes)
    2 %
    He drives I don't : (22 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1346 posts
    Bumble bee

    I drive, he doesn’t and I have a car, he doesn’t. I wouldn’t want to share either. Once I lived with a girl and she referred to my car as “ours,” I nearly punched her in the face. I don’t enjoy sharing things that only I pay for.

     

    Post # 4
    Member
    457 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    He drives most of the time, because my car is crappy and his is nice. I don’t like how his drives, and I’ve only been driving for a year, so I’m not very comfortable driving in it.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1629 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We take my car usually but we split the driving 50:50 usually. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    2151 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    He does all of the driving. I have my lisence, but I hate driving. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    2537 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    We only have one car, he uses it most of the time since he has to commute to work.  He also drives most of the time.  I do drive on occasion, mostly when I’m alone but sometimes when I need to drop him off or pick him up.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2132 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    We only have one car, it’s my car, and ever since he got added to the insurance he never lets me drive, haha. 

    Post # 9
    Member
    1157 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @FromA2B2013: My name is on the car. I made the down payment and signed all of the documents. He makes the monthly payments most of the time so it’s our car. He has it most of the time though.

    I was in a car accident and that killed my desire to drive. I drive when necessary. I can probably count on one hand the amount of times I’ve driven him since the accident 2 years ago.

     

    Post # 10
    Member
    573 posts
    Busy bee

    I’m currently learning, with a test soon.  So obviously SO drives us everywhere in his car.  He’s already said he wants to be princpal driver when we go somewhere because he doesn’t like being driven much, and we’ve agreed we’ll take his driving experience over my inexperience any day.  I will drive myself to work and get a second hand car and when necessary I will pick him up and drive him.  Also, on long drives on holiday etc we’ll share the driving (once I’ve had more experience post-test).

    Post # 11
    Member
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @FromA2B2013:  We only have one car and it’s mine, but when we go out together he drives. Only because he is the WORLD’S MOST ANNOYING BACKSEAT DRIVER EVER. It’s so bad – always telling me what gear I should be in, what lane, where to turn, where to park, etc. It reminds me of when my dad was teaching me how to drive and that was a terrible experience, because my dad is the exact same way, lol. 

    So I make FH drive everywhere. I will seriously only drive with him in the car if he’s in a coma or something. 

    Post # 12
    Hostess
    7630 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    We share a car. We split driving day-to-day. However, I get car sick on long rides so I usually take over. 

    Post # 13
    Member
    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @FromA2B2013:  His car is in better shape than mine so he does most of the driving. Of course I always drive if he’s been drinking (I don’t drink). 

    Post # 14
    Member
    490 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    He drives because I only have my learners permit and he has a ‘new driver’ license. We take his car because he likes it more than mine and he nearly ran mine into the ground the last time he borrowed it for an extended period of time. 

    Post # 15
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    995 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Most of the time we take DH’s car. It’s a 4 door and a lot more spacious than my little coupe. He also does most of the driving where we live now. I’m a nervous driver. we live in New England now, and between the unpredictable drivers out here, my unfamiliarity with the area, and the extra traffic, I don’t do very well.

    Post # 16
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    11300 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We both have cars, but he does most of the driving and we take my car. His is a stick and uses premium, and mine is an auto and a hatchback. I can’t drive a stick, so if we take mine and he can’t drive, I can; if we’re on a long trip/city driving, it’s easier for him to drive an auto; the hatch is nice if we need to haul anything (laundry, shopping, etc.).

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