(Closed) When you don’t like his friend(s)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
335 posts
Helper bee

Maybe he could just go without you? Seems like that way they get to hang out but you don’t have to be around her.

Post # 4
7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I ask him if it’s important to him that I go along.  If he says no – I don’t!  If he says yes – I go and try to make the best of it.  If he asks and wants me to go more often than I wish (after making an effort every once in awhile), I’ll just say no (and be honest about it:  ie:  I don’t really enjoy my time with ‘x’.)  

If you do end up needing to explain, make sure you make it about why YOU don’t want to go vs. a: I hate all your friends type conversation. 

Also – if you say no and he chooses to NOT go – then that’s HIS decision to make.  There’s nothing for you to feel guity about.

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