- 6 years ago
- Wedding: February 2012
WHat do you do when your SO wants to spend time as a couple with one or more of his friends but you don’t like them?
Thankfully Fiance keeps pretty good company but he just sent me a text asking if it’s alright if we go to our old manager’s house tonight.
They’re close friends and she hasn’t really done anything to me personally, but I’ve known her longer than Fiance has, before she became manager and she used to be a major bitch. I guess that whole time we worked together and she was stabbing everyone in the back to get promoted left a lasting impression that I can’t shake…I feel like “You’re nice now, but I know who you really are and what you’d do to get what you want” and I just don’t respect her as a person. That and she’s an alcoholic but I don’t drink so everytime we hang out with her, she pressures us to drink and then tries to volunteer me to babysit everyone i.e. “It’s ok, Harleyq can be the designated driver”
I told him ok, because I figure it’s only one night but I really wanted to say no. I just feel guilty doing so, cause I know he won’t go without me and they don’t get a chance to see each other often anymore.