(Closed) When you get a wedding invite, do you…?

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I don’t, I just check off whatever I’m supposed to.

Post # 4
5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

nope, unless i can’t attend.  then i’ll write a note thanking them for the invite but explaining why i can’t come.

Post # 5
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I do now that I’ve been a bride. I loved it when people left us notes on the RSVPs and I wish we had gotten more!!

Post # 6
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Depends on the style of the RSVP. I’ve gotten ones where it asks for a creative reply or a drawn photos. Formal ones just get a check that I’m attending or not. You don’t need to write anything crazy. You could just write, “Can’t wait to see you!” and that would be fine.

Post # 7
16216 posts
Honey Beekeeper

If it’s someone I’m really close to, I write a note about how happy I am for them or how excited I am to celebrate with them.

Post # 8
2790 posts
Sugar bee

It depends on who it is. For people we know well, like a recent invitation, I wrote “I got my party pants out already, I just have to have my SO iron them for me.” Or for a couple who put Adults only reception on their RSVP I wrote “All my kiddlets are ready for a party. Hope you have chicken nuggets.” or somthing to that effect. We don’t have children so thats why it was funny. I think it makes the RSVP extra fun for the Bride and Groom.

Post # 9
3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I had a girlfriend check off the “attending” option and then beside it wrote “(OF COURSE!!!)

It was cute, and I liked reading her excitement.

Post # 10
5494 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yes I usually write something on the RSVP.  Sometimes it’s just “can’t wait to celebrate with you” or something along those lines.

Post # 11
164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I had never thought of it before, but I love when I’ve gotten RSVPs with little notes, even something like “We can’t wait!”

The Best Man (who is both of our best friend) crossed off the “accepts with pleasure” and wrote in “accepts with regret” (our other option was “declines with regret”).  He didn’t know they weren’t going straight to us!  Luckily my mom knows it was just a joke 🙂

Post # 12
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I always draw a little picture. Usually an elephant butt with a heart with the bride and groom’s name in it lol

Post # 13
3574 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i usually write “can’t wait to celebrate” “love the invitation” or “so happy for you guys” something like that. 

Post # 14
7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I usually say something like:  Congratulations!  So happy for you… or looking forward to the big day!  or – can’t wait to celebrate with you… etc.


Post # 15
14337 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Just check it off and send it back.

Post # 16
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Nah, I just check the required box and send it back.

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