When you lost your virginity…..

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Was it planned?
    Yes : (174 votes)
    46 %
    No : (188 votes)
    49 %
    Other : (18 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Yeah, mine was planned. We had talked about it ALOT previously, and I had been dating the guy for a year.

    Post # 4
    2104 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    It was planned. We had been working our way up to it in a lot of ways for a while. I grew up in a very religious home, so it took a lot for me to get over the guilt and be ready. 

    Post # 5
    10883 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    To the extent that, due to my Christian faith and beliefs, I deliberately waited until after I was married before having sex, yes, that obviously was extremely planned.  🙂  The precise timing of when we consummated our marriage while on our honeymoon was not specifically planned, however.

    Post # 6
    4483 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Planned but regretted

    Post # 7
    830 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @mallo:  Winged it. Loved it. 😛

    Post # 8
    1002 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Not planned and majorly regretted.

    Post # 9
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee

    @mallo:  Semi-planned. He was ready long before I was, and I knew because we discussed about it openly. But I didn’t set a date, time, or anything. It was a slow process of learning to know each other better, to trust each other, to be in a relationship too. We were each other’s first. We’d been together for almost a year before we had sex together (and the first time, it was awful, lol !)


    Post # 10
    1802 posts
    Buzzing bee

    We didn’t set a date, but we talked about it a ton before it happened. We wanted to wait until after my 16th birthday (it wasn’t illegal, just a milstone I guess LOL), and we ended up actually waiting about three months after it.

    Post # 11
    2247 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Not planned.

    We just went a little bit further each night he snuck over until one day, it was sex.

    Post # 12
    557 posts
    Busy bee

    somewhat…we did it on valentines day…and though we never said “hey, wanna lose your virginity on valentines day” I got caught up in the moment and there you go.

    Post # 13
    225 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    Not planned at all the first virginity. Went to a party in college and got drunk and took a couple of girls home (what can I say, overachiever :p). Had a blast!

    The second virginity (with a guy) I had a feeling it might happen because a new guy I was seeing was sleeping over when he came to visit, but it’s not like we talked about it or anything. Again, got drunk while watching a movie and it happened. I regretted that, but only because I ended up getting engaged to the guy I lost it to! Had I known our relationship would be so serious I would have wanted to take sleeping together for the first time seriously.

    Post # 14
    810 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Planned. We put a lot of thought and conversation into it.

    I am really proud of that, especially looking back

    Post # 15
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    Not planned at all. We were dating for maybe 3 or 4 months at that point and just kept going further and further. So it just sort of happened. No regrets at all!

    Post # 16
    1627 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Planned by me at least.  I looped my very willing partner in that I wanted to do it and with him.

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