(Closed) Where are you both spending the night before??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Spending the night together in our own bed. I wouldn’t be able to sleep without him next to me! Probably won’t sleep anyway, but at least he’ll be there!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ll be spending the night in my childhood bedroom in my parents’ house. FI will be at a hotel.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

We spent the night before and after in a hotel together. I couldn’t imagine not waking up with him, and it was nice to cuddle and get ready for the day together

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

We are spending the night before the wedding together at the B&B where we are getting married. We booked a late evening couple’s massage in our suite to help us wind down and relax before bed. I can’t wait!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We’re each getting our own hotel room. My 2 MOHs are staying with me. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

We spent the night before our wedding together in a hotel. I was with him until about 1 p.m. when I had to go to my hair/makeup appointments. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

He will be staying at my FSIL’s, where we are having the rehearsal dinner. I will be in a hotel probably with my sister and my mom.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I stayed at my parent’s house with my 2 sisters. DH stayed at his dad’s house with his dad and brothers. It worked out perfectly for us ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

We each had separate hotel rooms completely to ourselves.

I was going to be in a room with both my parents and my two siblings (yay for 5 people in a hotel room) but a couple of my friends decided that that was no way to spend the night before my wedding and that I needed to be able to relax in my own room.  So they used hotel points to get me one for free!  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Separate hotel rooms.  I knew I was going to need to be in bed early, with no distractions.  As it turned out, it was a good thing we did separate rooms, since he ended up going out “for just a few drinks” with a few buddies after the rehearsal dinner and was out way later than he expected.  I would have killed him if he woke me up at 2am on our wedding day. 

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper

@ticatica: We are renting our venue out (complete with two floors of suites) the night before for our closest friends and family. So after the rehearsal and dinner we will have the place to ourselves, and of course we will be spending the night before in the venue together.

From other brides I have been told it is exciting to also have night before “girls” party with the bridal party ladies spending the night together.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We spent our last night as single people together.  The day of, he was sent to a friends, and then I got dressed @ the hotel.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

nope! I’m too superstitious! ๐Ÿ™‚ We’ll spend the night apart.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We’ll be spending the night apart. I’ll be at the Hotel with my best friend/MOH — because I have so much trouble sleeping without him, maybe I’ll be alright at least having someone else in the bed! LOL. And I’ll also have out of town girlfriends and family in the hotel. We’ll have a girls night with some wine and maybe some mud masks, just trying to relax.

He’ll be at his parents with his guys and brother and dad. I’m worried about their night before activity. He keeps telling me “Babe, our wedding isn’t until 6 PM … you know I can’t keep partying after 2 or 3 AM, we’ll be fine”… lol. It stresses me, ridiculously!

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