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Where are you in the planning process?

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
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    mizunoheaven    June 2009   Oregon/Kuwait/wedding in Australia

    I am really curious how anyone can take planning for 6 months to a year. I almost went out of my mind and I think we spent 2 weeks or a few days more.

    I am kind of bragging. I realize that weddings are planned in like 30 minutes in Vegas.

    However, for only having attended three weddings in my adult life, I think we did pretty good.

    We will however have some work to do after the ceremony, such as sending out the announcements! Ha, I know, kind of backward. But really our announcements will be to announce that we are wed and that we will have two parties, one in Houston and one in Oregon,  for our friends and family, and all they need to do is show up and enjoy.  We will also include photos in this post announcement.

    Our list was not long.

    Celebrant

    Venue

    Music -bagpiper

    Dress/Tux +accessories

    Photographer

    Wedding License, also called Intent to Marry

    Flowers-okay, I will admit this is the only remaining thing on the to list. But I think I am going to make my own bouquet. I will bring florist tape with me and some other little things to add to it. I will also make his buttonhole.

    I am just feeling so proud of us. And it really took a lot of work from both of us. He pulled equal weight and I am really impressed with the photographers he picked.

    But I am also beaming at my suggestion of the bagpiper.

    Please share about where you are and how far away, any details. Now that I am in this "clear", iI feel more relaxed and able to take in y'alls plans.

     
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    stormy9973    October 3, 2009   Ottawa, KS

    We still have a few months left of planning, but I feel real good about where we are:

    Things that are done:

    Ceremony site

    Reception site                                                    Celebrant

    Invitations (DIY)                                                Photographer

    RSVP postcards (DIY)                                         DJ

    BM's bouquets                                                   Favors

    BM's dresses                                                     Jewelry

    my dress and veil                                              Cake

    shoes                                                              1/2 of decorations for reception

    rentals for ceremony (columns, candlesticks, etc.)

    Still to do:

    Flower girl dresses                                             Tuxes

    My bouquet                                                      flower girl baskets

    ring bearer pillows                                             rest of decorations!!

     Congrats to you on your upcoming nuptials!!!

     

     
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    attybride    9/25/10   Boston, MA

    Our wedding is over a year away, so I've done next to nothing.  Actually, the only think I've done is book an engagement photo shoot and start looking at venues online.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I've done everything except:

    paint aisle runner

    finish coasters

    print and mail rehearsal dinner invitations

    assemble centerpieces in 'Kits' for easy assembly

    print up cocktail menus

    purchase all the liquor and necessary items

    find 2 bartenders

    pick out all the music: 1st songs, processionals, etc

    make gift baskets for some special people

    party it up at my bachelorette party and shower

    bottle up limoncello

    Get some sleep and have fun! 

    I think it depends on how elaborate everything is and how much you are crafting yourself. I look at my above list and 90% of it I could have paid for, but don't want to. 

    My mom got engaged and was married in a month, so it's doable...just depends on what you want. The nice thing about a longer engagement (like mine, 13 months) is that you don't have to cram it all into a short period of time but can spread it out a little more. I was supposed to go to the UK for a week-long work trip this month, which is partially why i'm so far ahead--i was planning on losing 10 days worth of wedding time! 

    Getting married June 20....5 weeks away! 

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    aloweha      

    I got engaged in Oct 08. In the past 7 months I've only managed to buy a dress and book a venue. And I just mailed the save the dates yesterday. Something tells me I need to pick up the pace or my guests won't be eating and we will have to buy a disposable camera on the way to the ceremony to capture some pics. Oh and I will be barefoot and my groom and the entire wedding party will be naked...

    My biggest problem is making decisions, once I decide I can move fast but I will go back and forth over the littlest things for ages.

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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    LoL i thought you meant they really WERE going to be naked....not that they'd be naked if you didn't get your butt in gear!

    A nude wedding certainly would be....interesting. I don't think I could handle that much man junk hanging around though Where are you in the planning process? :  wedding Icon Wink

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    lindseylou    May 8, 2010   Boston

    I am getting married next May so we have just under a year to go. I got engaged in February and so far we have done the following:P

    organized budget

    booked church

    booked reception site

    booked our dj

    booked our officiant

    researched photographers + videographers and narrowed it down to a few

    designed invitations

    set up engagement photo session (next week... yay!)

    dress shopping but haven't found mine yet

    picked out bridesmaid dresses

    made cufflinks for the groomsmen

    started assembling wedding wands for ceremony

    attempted mock-up of centerpieces

    I feel good about the pace we're going and have realized the best thing to do is to get all my "mini" projects out of the way! I want to be able to enjoy the next year and not feel stressed over the next 12 months! Just be sure to decide what is important to you and try not to stress... this should be a fun and enjoyable time!!!

     

     

     

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