Where did the FI/BFF encounter thread go?

posted 4 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
4499 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

She deleted the thread.

The last update I saw was about how she was going to try to make it work with her FI.

Post # 4
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oops–I was thinking of the wrong thread!


Post # 6
1651 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@Arshim:  The OP deleted it. A lot of posters were getting nasty towards her because she didn’t do exactly what they said (mainly, leaving both relationships).

I don’t think it was her intention to start a huge debate about it. . . she just seemed like she wanted some sympathy and a safe place to get all her emotions out in a healthy way. Instead what she got was a huge blowout. Thats a bit sad to me, that people can’t take the time to just say something supportive when she obviously needed it most.

As far as I know, the OP has decided to try counseling for herself and her FI in the hopes that they can move past this. I have no clue what she’s going to do about her friendship with her BFF, but it wouldn’t surprise me if she asked her to step down from the wedding.

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