Post # 1
Sorry if I’m being stupid but I’ve been out of things since yesterday thanks to a terrible flu, so I didn’t log on. I saw a Bee replied to my response in that threadmwhen I logged on this morning, but when I checked the thread is no longer there.
Was it closed/removed by the OP? Were there any updates? Don’t mean to stir anything up but I’m genuinely curious as to if the OP has resolved the issue with her FI.
Post # 3
She deleted the thread.
The last update I saw was about how she was going to try to make it work with her FI.
Post # 4
Oops–I was thinking of the wrong thread!
Post # 5
@BrandNewBride: you are thinking of the wrong thread.
OP, she must have deleted it.
Post # 6
@Arshim: The OP deleted it. A lot of posters were getting nasty towards her because she didn’t do exactly what they said (mainly, leaving both relationships).
I don’t think it was her intention to start a huge debate about it. . . she just seemed like she wanted some sympathy and a safe place to get all her emotions out in a healthy way. Instead what she got was a huge blowout. Thats a bit sad to me, that people can’t take the time to just say something supportive when she obviously needed it most.
As far as I know, the OP has decided to try counseling for herself and her FI in the hopes that they can move past this. I have no clue what she’s going to do about her friendship with her BFF, but it wouldn’t surprise me if she asked her to step down from the wedding.
Post # 7
Thanks for replying everyone. I’m sorry if she felt attacked but sometimes, it’s good to get a stranger’s objective opinion…it allows you to see things you simply can’t when being involved in a situation. I think most Bees were looking out for her and wanted the best for her though.