Post # 1
i am a virgin but my fiancé isn’t and he has only used condoms. I have gone on the pill for contraception (and to try and stop my period for the wedding) so we will not necessariltoned to use condoms as well. Anyway, I was speaking to him about if he wanted to use them as well or not and he is indifferent but is not sure where the ‘stuff’ goes if there is no condom. Obviously some must go inside as that is how a baby is made but what about the rest of it?
If any Bees could give me an my fiancé a better insight into this…it would be appreciated!
Post # 3
@FromA2B2013: If he ejaculates inside of you, that’s where the semen would go. It is kinda messy though. Lol. It doesn’t just stay tucked up inside 😉 Doctors recommend that you urinate within 30 mins of intercourse to prevent UTIs, so go to the bathroom after and a lot of it will come out into the toilet. I keep wet wipes by the toilet to clean myself up.
Post # 4
Ok, It’s TMI Time!
We dont use them either, and so when we are done it stays up inside me and I go to the loo and have a quick pee and it comes out. I do kegels regularily and everything stays pretty tight so leakage isnt usually an issue.
Post # 5
Thank you ladies…that’s what I assumed happened!
Post # 7
@FromA2B2013: FI and I don’t use condoms, so it all goes inside me as well. I usually just tuck a tissue down there to hold it in so that I can hurry to the bathroom lol. Just make sure to pee right after sex to avoid infection! I got lazy for about a week and wouldn’t you know it-I got my first UTI 😛
Post # 8
@FromA2B2013: Into you, then usually mostly back out again into the toilet (always pee after sex!) or your underwear, depending on how quickly it works its way back out… I usually wear a pantyliner or something for a bit, or just take a shower.
Post # 9
Like previous posters have said, it goes inside you, and then usually begins to leak out within a few minutes (which is gross). He can also pull out and ejaculate -on- you, like on your belly/butt depending on the position. That way is much less icky in my opinion because you can wipe it off in one go.
If you do decide not to use condoms, and if he ejaculates in you, I’ve noticed that lying on your side stops too much leaking from happening in the time it takes to grab some tissue.
Post # 10
Just like other bees are saying, if you don’t use a condom it’s just there…inside of you. We keep a bunch of cheap washcloths in the top drawer of the night stand by the bed, and when he comes, he grabs a washcloth for me and one for him. He wipes off and I hold the washcloth under myself while I walk to the bathroom. Both of you should try to pee ASAP after each romp in the sack. Make sure you wipe really well afterward – I always use baby wipes in addition to toilet paper.