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Where It Begins... (oh oh oh OH)

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    I'm not sure if I fell into the category of waiting like some of the other posts before, but after watching my boyfriend order my engagement ring, I am now officially waiting. He had every intention of picking out my ring on his own and surprising me, but I think a combination of his desire to make me happy, knowing what a perfectionist I am (who me? ;-) ), and the fact the we really always make big decisions together all led to him wanting me to be a part of picking out the ring. MUCH to my delight. I just envisioned my tall, attractive yet somehow extremely shy boyfriend walking into a jewelry store, getting so flustered at the prospect of having to actually talk to salesperson that he buys the first ring he sees, thus either getting ripped off or ending up with something neither of us loves. That ended that. 

    However, I now know that it will arrive on Monday, and I know that he will probably take his time picking out the perfect time/place to propose.  And it is killing me slowly. 

    I kid, I kid. But  I will try my best not to foil any surprises in the upcoming weeks, I will avoid sarcasm during important moments, and most importantly, I will be camera ready at all times. 

     
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    lreighard1    8/22/09   Washington, DC

    Hooray!!!  Congratulations!!! :D

     
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    bruschetta    August 29, 2009   Philadelphia

    Try to avoid excess complaining, too.  I learned that lesson the hard way, trust me.  Where It Begins... (oh oh oh OH) :  wedding Icon Wink

     
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    FutureMrsR    September 12, 2009   CA/IL

    Haha I love the camera-ready part! Don't forget the manicure. lol

     
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    Thanks all :-) His mom actually took me to get a manicure this past weekend so I'm set for a little while. I'll keep y'all posted!

     
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    Firefighter_Prazs_Girl    02/3/2010 and 05/03/2010   Angleton Texas

    Congrats!! I talked about it ALL the time and asked him about my Bling Bling and let me tell you.. It just made him take longer to pop the question because he wanted me not to be thinking about it or expecting it!

     
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    CHK    July 10, 2010   Northern Idaho

    Wohoo! Byofriend and I just agreed to skip skiing on Saturday, do some stuff around the house and then go ring shopping!

    @ Lex314: What was your experience ring shopping? Did you order exactly what you'd always envisioned? Or did you fall in love with something you didn't expect to like?

     
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    I have a pretty strong personality but my jewelry decisions were simple. Also, once I make a decision, I rarely second guess it. Ring shopping was more like an opportunity to see how well my boyfriend knows me and feel sorry for the all of choices a guy must make and hope for the best. Style-wise I'm very simple and classic which did not waiver after shopping, and my ring being conflict-free was important to us. The salespeople kept bringing ridiculously ornate baubles over and I did humor them, but nothing swayed me- though I went in with an open mind, and after plenty of online research I think it is safe to say I did my due diligence.

     
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    bluebonnet    July 31, 2010   Houston, TX

    Aww, good luck with all the waiting!

    I told my boyfriend NOT to tell me when he has/is getting the ring...because I know I'll just go crazy being curious about when/how he's proposing if I know he has the ring already (I'm one of those people that just has to snoop around searching for all the details about their own surprise birthday party)!

     Maybe if his mom took you for a manicure...then she knows it's coming soon. :o)

     
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    I've been so overwhelmed the last week that I completely forgot to check back in and share the good news... on March 17, only a day after getting the ring, my boyfriend was so excited that he decided he couldn't wait any longer and proposed in our living room. It caught me completely by surprise and because I was convinced there was no way he would be able to surprise me, it was absolutely wonderful. Our friends and family are thrilled for us, and we are planning a wedding in Islamorada in Winter 2010. Thanks so much for all of your support!

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    lilikoi    September, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    fi and i shopped for the ring together too and he picked it up from the jeweler about a month before we were leaving for kauai (a trip that was scheduled almost a year prior).  we both knew he was going to propose there and i felt all anxious about being "camera ready" and beautiful at all times.  my suitcase was HUGE.  then he just spontaneously proposed the morning we were going to leave.  he said he thought it was the only way he could surprise me.  really sweet.  i know it's impossible to not think "when when when?"  but just know that he's probably wanting to surprise you too.  congrats in advance, it's so exciting!!  :) 

     
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    lilikoi    September, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    lex!  ha, i didn't read all the way through & saw your post right after i replied.  awww, i'm so happy for you, that sounds like a perfect proposal!

     

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Congrats!  I love Islamorada and it will be lovely..best wishes and happy planning!  I'm glad he didn't make you wait..see?  His mom thought she was being sly in the manicure thing huh?  Wink wink!  

    I bet she's pretty cool..having a MIL just "know" that you'll need a manicure to show off your lovely ring is MY kinda MIL to be!

     
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    happilywaiting       Massachusetts

    Congratulations!!! Happy Planning!!!

     
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    Congrats :)

     

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