Post # 1
I had a general question that I thought I would ask everyone. Where should someone get married? Do you pick the place you grew up or where you live now?
I’m worried if I pick the place I grew up then friends I have in the city won’t come.
Post # 3
I picked neither!
I grew up in CA, now live in NYC, getting married in Maine.
Our friends and family are spread out everywhere. Anywhere we chose over 80% of people would have to travel.
FI’s mom now lives in Maine (he used to go up every summer) and I fell in love with it when I visited.
It’s destination for everyone except FI’s mom and godmother, but everyone is very excited to plan a vacation around it.
We sent out our STDs for the September wedding in March so everyone could make travel plans.
Post # 4
I picked NYC – Its where I live now – I grew up in New Jersey, but most of my family is in Florida and all my friends are nearby. My husbands friends were all in florida where he grew up and most of them came to NY for the wedding.