Post # 1
Hello, this is my situation… We are 1 year married (3 months pregnant)
He is from peru….but living in Canada since 5 years ago
I’m mexican living in canada 1 year ago.
He come to canada to start a new life, and have more opportunities, he have a good goob (but half the money goes to taxis and morgage). so not chance to save money. He’s proud because he get a house and liked his job.
I tried to liked here, but the city it´s too cold -40 degress sometimes, winters are long (6 months). my city in mexico it´s always warm.
I really miss my family and they want us to go there , they would help us with a house and offering a new job to my housband.
He prefer living here because he make all that he have by himself, but i´m don´t feel happy living here.
I’m been to selfish for ask him to move? i´m pregnant and i woul like that my baby grow with family.
Post # 2
chica_b: I would do what is best for your new family. If your husband is against living in Mexico because there is more opportunity for your family in canada, then you might have to come up with a better solution. If you truly believe there is more opportunity for your new family in Mexico, not just to be closer to your family, then move there. But you should really just talk it out with your husband and weigh out all of your options. It sounds like you are just really homesick, but sometimes being homesick doesn’t make it a good idea to run home. Think about the future of your child, schooling, finances, what place is best long term, not short term.
Post # 3
You gotta think long term on where you want to live. You don’t want to move somewhere just because. If it were me I would come up with a compromise aka live somewhere other then Mexico and Canada. have you considered moving to the United states? That might be a good compromise and live in Texas or something. That way it’s in the u.s but close to Mexico.