(Closed) Where's my maid of honor?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Lynetta:  that’s a tough one… has she been in a wedding before? Maybe she does not realize how much responsibility comes with the title of maid of honour. It sounds like you need to sit down with her and have a discusion so that she is in full understanding of what being a maid of honour means to you, and what you would expect her to be able to do. If she is too busy or unavailable to do these things (totally understandable, with a new baby!), then maybe you should stil have her in your wedding but have another girl as Maid/Matron of Honor. Would she be upset? Would she get over it? Maybe you have a lovely, other bridesmaid who is willing to step in and essentially fill the role of Maid/Matron of Honor without actually having the title… it sounds like your sister is going to be Maid/Matron of Honor in title only. Maybe she expects that she deserves to be Maid/Matron of Honor because she is your sister, no matter how much time or attention she has to devote to the role? My sister seems to also think this, so I feel you : /  I have not asked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor though, and it is causing huge issues. 

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