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Which Dress for June wedding? Help! Jenny Packham vs Reem Acra

posted 5 months ago in Dress
  • poll: Which dress should I buy for my June 2013 wedding?
    Jenny Packham Aspen : (116 votes)
    64 %
    Reem Acra Goddess : (66 votes)
    36 %
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    Hi Bees,

    Have fallen in love with two dresses, and need to make a final choice as I am at the very final cut-off for ordering for my June 1, 2013 wedding.

    The contenders are both pricey and I'm not sure about the hefty price tags, so I'm looking for either some reassurance in addition to some opinions and comments.

    1. Jenny Packham Aspen

    2. Reem Acra Goddess

     
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    kcweddinggirl    May 4, 2013  

    maybe add a poll! I love the Reem Acra Goddess! I think the neckline and bodice is beautiful and the sleeves are gorgeous as well. Would you wear a veil? Do you have any pictures of you in either dress? Which one do you feel more comfortable in?

     
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    I love the Reem! 

     
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    huuvybity    January 19, 2013  

    Goddess dress for sure!

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    @kcweddinggirl: Difficult question regarding the veil, I was putting that off until after choosing the dress (maybe not the most logical, but it helps to take it one step at a time). I would like to have a floor length veil, since I'm pretty tall and the dress doesn't have a train, but I wouldn't want to distract from the back of the dress - it is exactly as the front with the deep V and beadwork.

    Thanks for the suggestion on the poll!

     
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    kcweddinggirl    May 4, 2013  

    @natylka:  I guess I'll put my two cents in and I personally don't like how the model is wearing it. Understandable and smart taking it one thing at a time. Can't wait to hear what YOUR decision is :)

     

     
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    thepainter    October 2013  

    Aspen is one of my favorite dresses, and I think it'd be perfect for June. Personally, I would feel that the Goddess dress is too flashy in the "dress wearing you, not you wearing the dress" kind of way. But, if you can pull it off and prefer it- go for it! They are both beautiful.

     
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    atlbride2013    September 28, 2013   Atlanta

    Op, can you add some photos of you in the dresses? Is your wedding black tie or more casual? What's the venue? I'm a Packham bride so I'm partial to her dresses but the Reem is gorgeous and if you're doing an evening ballroom wedding, I much prefer it over the Packham.

     
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    Mimoza    May 9, 2014   NY

    I love JP, and especially the Willow dress - your Aspen is very close to that so it has my vote. 

    Can't wait to find out what you pick! :)

     
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    jrzvol    June 22, 2013  

    I just tied the vote by voting for the JP, but really they're both gorgeous.

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    @jrzvol:  Haha! Thanks a lot!! :)

     
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    Caroheart    August 31, 2013   NJ

    I like the JP. Also, I feel like it might be more comfortable for june

     
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    StarryNight2011    May 2011  

    I voted for the Reem-goddess. But what's most important is how you feel in the dress. Did one dress feel better when you tried them on?

    For the record, I don't think you'll go wrong with either one.

     
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    Tangled    January 5, 2013  

    It's very tough without seeing you IN the dresses. Those dresses could look amazing or terrible depending on the body type. the JP would look better on a girl with a curvy figure than the Reem would. I think the Reem would just flair out over any kind of chest and make the wearer look large around the middle.

     
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    FauxBoho    March 15, 2014  

    Yup I can't give my opinion without seeing you in the dress. I love both but who knows which will look better on you.

     
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    mjoyelle    August 3, 2013  

    OMG that Jenny Packham is to DIE for.  I'd kill to be able to afford that dress!

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    @mjoyelle:  The price is definitely part of what makes it so difficult. It has to be 'the one'!

     
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    FauxPas2012    January 1, 2000   Syracuse NY

    @natylka:  oooooo fun for us to choose between these tow dresses. I think the Reem one. Love both of them, though.

     
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    BooRadley    April 2013   Virginia

    They are both gorgeous!  I like your taste.  Can you give more details about where you'll be getting married, reception venue, time of reception, formality, etc?  That will influence things a lot.

     
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    malibukayla    June 28, 2013   Toronto, ON, Canada

    I persoanlly like the first one. 

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    I've seen the jenny packham on 2 brides on FB, and they both looked INCREDIBLE!  :)

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    Thanks everyone for so many great comments!

    We are having a church ceremony, which will be somewhat formal, but the church is small, Gothic style: (trust me, it looks much better in proper lighting!)

    Whereas the reception will be on an old estate that is more English garden/tudor style:

    The JP is more close-fitting at the hips and down which I like, but the Reem is actually much more flattering around the waist. I'm pretty straight up and down, not too curvy.

    They were both equally comfortable.... it's so close!

    JP:

    - I like the train

    - Perhaps a slight edge in fitting the venue

    Reem:

    - I felt a bit less self-conscious

     

    Thanks again for all of your input!

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    @pengoala:  Can you copy any of the pics of the JP brides and post them (or send them to me)? I would love to see pics of "real brides"!

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    @natylka:  Sure, I'll shoot you a PM!

     
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    EffieTrinket        Oklahoma

    Normally I am a RA fan, but I really like the Packham better. It's a much more feminine shape, IMO.

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    @pengoala:  Thanks so much!!!

     
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    maria281    November 20, 2014  

    I like the first one more (Aspen). I think it's more flattering on the top and reminds me of Goddness more than the second one.

     
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    redband    May 5, 2012   Amsterdam

    The Reem is gorgeous!

     

     
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    BooRadley    April 2013   Virginia

    #1.  The Reem Acra is gorgeous but more black tie and modern.  When I saw the Packham, I thought it would be perfect for an English countryside wedding...which is what it looks like you're having!

    If you're worried about the fit and your slim figure, remember that the Duchess of Cambridge pulled it off and she's very straight up-and-down.

     
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    justjade    January 1, 1992  

    @natylka:  OOh! Tough Choice!

    I absolutely LOVE LOVE the Aspen! Everytime I see it my heart beats faster and it was a serious serious inspiration for the dress I am designing!

    But that second one!  I have never seen it before! It looks beautiful! Do you know what the back looks like?! I am a sucker for interesting backs and the Aspen is beautiful with its bow and buttons!

     

     
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    weddingbound    October 11, 2012  

    I prefer the first one but it's hard to say without seeing them both on you. 

     
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    @natylka:  I have to see the back of the Reem Acra to decide!  I tried to check online but typing goddess with Reem Acra brings up like every dress!

     
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    natylka    June 1, 2013  

    @justjade:  and the rest of the wonderful bees who have been commenting: Here is a pic of the back. It's virtually identical to the front, with the same pattern, just over a larger area.

    The Aspen was my original favorite, but that may just be due to the fact that I saw it earlier. The Reem Acra is Fall 2013.

     
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    summonerscollar    January 1, 1993  

    Personally, I like the Aspen dress better. It feels more romantic and will play well with both the gothic edge of the ceremony location as well as a classic elegance feeling with the English garden feeling of the reception. So, I cast my vote for the first. And everyone will think you are beautiful, especial the FH, in either!

     
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    justjade    January 1, 1992  

    @natylka:  Oh My! I think I am going to vote 2! I love bateau necklines! I really think either way you cannot go wrong!

    Have you had the chance to try either of them on?

     
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    Mrs-Mac    November 8, 2013   Florida

    Personally, I like the Aspen dress better. It feels more romantic and will play well with both the gothic edge of the ceremony location as well as a classic elegance feeling with the English garden style of the reception. 

     
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    peonyinparis    March 2014   Beijing

    Another vote for the Aspen. Both gowns are beautiful, but I feel the Aspen is a more classic wedding gown, and also more suited to your venue. It's such a romantic gown, and would look both timeless and modern 50 years from now.

    Also - this depends on your body shape - I just imagine the Aspen would be universally flattering. The v-neck, the little lace cap sleeves - makes the waist look tiny and the silhouette slimmer. I would worry that the Reem Acra might be overwhelming on a normal height bride, and also the bateau neck with all the beading/embroidery would look bulky on anyone with much of a bust.

     
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    Natflynn29    October 5, 2013   Florida

    Hi! Which dress did you end up buying? I just bought the reem acra goddess for  my October wedding. It's so gorgeous but a hard choice because the model looks so boxy in it, and I tried it on in a large sample size! Love your JP option too! I'm sure they will both look amazing!

     

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