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Which gift from Tiffany's would YOU want?

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Which would you like the best?
    Pearl Studs : (38 votes)
    36 %
    Bow Necklace : (31 votes)
    30 %
    Key Chain : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Bead Earrings : (12 votes)
    11 %
    Teardrop Necklace : (21 votes)
    20 %
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    Charm bracelet    July 24, 2010   Placentia, CA

    I love Tiffany's.  I would want jewelry for sure and not a keychain.  I would also like to suggest their initials pendant.  This way each girl gets a unique gift.

    http://www.tiffany.com/Shopping/Item.aspx?sku=GRP03111&mcat=&cid=&fromGrid=1&search_params=s+1-p+3-c+-r+-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+initials&search=1

    It doesn't come with the necklace though.

     
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    bridegrl    October 9, 2010   Monterey County, California

    I think if you're giving thm a Tiffany box..they may be disappointed if its not jewelry, so I wouldn't do the keychain...lol...I really like the bead earrings or the teardrop necklace..very pretty. they seem more wearable for everyday than the pearls...I'd be happy with any of the choices...

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    I love the teardrop pendant.  It is definitely the most interesting standout piece to me, though it's neutral enough to wear with a lot of things.

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I voted for the pearl studs because I beleive a girl can never have too many pearls. BTW, I already have pearl studs, but they are always my goto earring. I also have two holes in my ears, so I would wear them together with the ones I already have or with another pair. Chances are, if your girls already have a pair of pearl studs, they are probably a different size than these and maybe not as nice.

     
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    michelle86    April 17, 2010   Saint Paul, Minnesota

    Every piece is nice, but for something more usable, I'd like a necklace.  Keychains get scratched up in a purse, and I personally wear the same earrings every day.

     
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    Ms. Caniche    September 18, 2010   Orange County, CA

    I LOVE my bead earrings!  They are super classic and go with anything.  I wear mine all the time.

     
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    mrsmurraytobe    June 11, 2011   Atlanta

    Maybe its because Im a biased girlie southern belle ( ;) ) but I LOVE the idea of the pearl studs! Theyre so versatile as far as wear (tshirts to cocktail) and its something that they would all like. Youre such a sweet bride!! I wear pearls with everything, like some of the other bees, pearls are my go to accessory and just so classic!

    My vote=pearls :)

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Probably the pearl studs.  My second choice would be the bow pendant.  I probably wouldn't get much use out of the other things, if I received any of them. 

     
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    MjBroksan    November 6 2010   Arkansas Wedding in Florida

    Voting for pearl studs or the teardrop necklace. Those are things the girls could wear alot! :) I would love them lol.

     
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    kroegerk    November 11, 2011   Arizona

    @charm bracelet I love that idea!!! I might do something like this :)

     
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    kroegerk    November 11, 2011   Arizona

    I vote on the pearls! those are not a trend, they will never go out of style. They can wear those for years and years down the road! LOVE IT!

     
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    lllouise    January 1, 2015   Australia

    I'd probably choose a necklace simply because I have a pair of earrings I wear every day. Out of the two, I'd go with the bow one because I like something a little different, although I'd admit that the teardrop is a bit more classic

     
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    Mrs. Louboutin    July 2010  

    Honestly, I wouldn't want any of those.  I went through this same thing of figuring out what to get my girls and the relatively inexpensive everyday/ generic jewelry from Tiffany is so overpriced.  You can get a full set of earrings, necklace and bracelet that is identical from reputable jewelers for the same price as what you would spend on it at Tiffany. 

    If you love pearls, go to thepearloutlet.com and get a full set of larger pearls that comes with an actual apprasial versus a very small pair of pearls earrings from Tiffany that doesn't come with an appraisal and is very overpriced.  Same thing goes for the bead earrings, but get them from Blue Nile and get the largest size... and get the whole set!

    One of the things I got my girls was a pair of 10mm 18K yellow gold bead stud earrings.  They were $160/ pair at Blue Nile with free shipping and no tax.  At Tiffany, a SMALLER pair was $400 for the exact same thing AND LESS GOLD. Do the sterling silver bead earrings at Tiffany at least have a gold post?  Many people get allergic reactions to sterling silver posts.  And I guarantee you that when the girls wear them, no one will know they are or aren't from Tiffany.  And, if they were, they wouldn't even be 18K gold at that smaller size and much higher price.

    I'm not saying buy from some ghetto place or that opening the Robin's Egg Blue box isn't nice, it isn't worth the expense for what you get, regardless of if its sterling silver or gold. 

    I'm not trying to be a stick in the mud and I think that you sound like a very generous bride, I just don't think what you would be purchasing is worth the price. Maybe if they were in solid white gold, but with sterling silver that tarnishes so easily and for well over $100 for each gift?

     

     
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    littlemissmango    July 7, 2012   Oahu, HI

    Mrs. Louboutin is right about Tiffany's being ridiculously overpriced. I think if you are going for the little blue box, you should opt for something that is recognizably Tiff's. To me, the bow necklace looks like an obvious Tiffany piece (so would a key necklace). The pearls ARE amazing, as are the rest of the choices, but you would not necessarily know by looking at them where they were from. But, if I were one of your maids, I would be ecstatic to recieve ANY of these!! :)

     
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    Mrs. Louboutin    July 2010  

    One thing I just do what to emphasize is that I think you are a VERY generous bride and while my comment above may come across as harsh, it certainly isn't meant to be so.  I just wanted to get the point across that you could get MORE and MORE BEAUTIFUL things for your ladies for either the same price or cheaper. 

    Another example, if you bought the bead earrings in the 8mm size you are interested in from Blue Nile in 18K WHITE GOLD rather than Tiffany Sterling Silver, it would be the same price... well technically slightly less since BN doesn't charge tax or shipping.

    Best of luck to you lady, no matter what you decide to do!

     
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    Patty082810    August 2010  

    Mrs. Louboutin - I agree with you in your comments.  Tiffany's IS way overpriced.  But then again, I guess I was thinking that these girls would never buy Tiffany's for themselves as they are still in grad school and/or working in low-paid internships and don't have the funds.  It is all about that name, but I think a lot of things are like that - like Coach purses, they're expensive and not that well made, but everyone still buys them!

    I think if I go with the pearls I will look into other sellers. Thanks for the the website, I'll check it out!

    Would you girls even want Tiffany's as a gift? Or would you be like wow, this is overpriced??

     

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I personally would think the bride wasted her money on me by buying Tiffany's. For $100+ for one jewelry item...(which i don't even spend on myself, so that's why i say 'wasted')....i would want to be IN love with it. And i'm simply not completely enamored by any of the above items. For $100..i think you can do better, that's all =]. Like a Coach clutch or something like that....or a GC to a nice spa.....seriously that woudl be amazing.

    I just prefer to pick out my own jewelry. I'd be like 'oh she spent $100 on this...and i've worn it....three times?...'

    Sorry that's probably what you don't want to hear =\

     
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    Patty082810    August 2010  

    See I'd feel the same way about a Coach clutch. I wouldn't use it and I would think it's a waste of money.

    I guess it just depends on the girl, but I'm buying the same for all 3 of my BM, so it's a hard decision!

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    I have the bead earrings and wear them virtually every day.  A lot of people already have pearl earrings, so I voted for the bead earrings!

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    i think the bow necklace is super cute :) the pearls are lovely too, but i already have a couple pairs of pearl studs...so imo, the necklace would be more unique.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i think it depends on your girls, and you know them best.

    i would like the pearl earrings or the bow necklace.

     
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    tippy    August 7, 2010   Philadelphia, wedding in Northern NJ

    I'm so glad you posted this as I was wondering what to get my BMs as well! I would go with the bead earrings as they're recognizably tiffanys, and as someone said above, some people may already own pearls. I think no matter what, they'll love what you end up choosing and it's really nice of you to consider a gift that they wouldn't normally get for themselves :)

     
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    Definitely not the key ring.  I like the bow necklace the best, but either of the pairs of earrings would be a no fail classic choice.

     
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    sahsabahs    June 2011  

    I got a Tiffany's ring for being in a wedding a few years ago.  It was really nice, but I felt bad because I know the bride spent a lot - but I would rather have picked out my own jewelry.

    I love Charm Bracelet's idea of an initial necklace though - it's personal and also Tiffany's if you're going for the name recognition.

     
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    trailmix      

    I voted for the pearl drop necklace but I like the bow too! I never ever wear pearls so for me, the pearl studs wouldn't be as appreciated but I would still DEFINITELY be super-excited to get something from Tiffanys!!

    I've only gotten one thing from there ever and it was a set of candlesticks so for me, no matter what it was, I'd be excited and touched by the bride's generosity!

     
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    Teaserama    March 18, 2010   Dunedin, Fl

    Honestly I wouldn't want any of those. If I had to choose... I would pick the pearl earings. I guess I would just want something more personal. All the best bridesmaids gifts I ever recieved the Bride picked something personal, unique that reflected our personality which I thought was just so awesome. That this person took the time out of planning a wedding, to pick something that reflected me.

     
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    Mrs. Louboutin    July 2010  

    @ Patty, I see your point.  My girls and your girls are in completely different situations.  I remember when I was still a student, I loved having Tiffany jewelry that was clearly Tiffanys.  Now that I'm older, have a job, and can afford other things, I buy more expensive jewelry, which is typically more classic in style such as 11mm pearl stud earrings or gemstone stud earrings with a halo of small diamonds around each one.  If I was to go for something specifically for the name and because when you see it, you know exactly what it is, I go for David Yurman jewelry now.  Same thing goes for my love of Louboutin shoes. In terms of purses, I don't like getting anything that has a label all over it, so I wouldn't be the type to get the Coach purse anymore.  Auy purse I buy now is all leather and while I do have some designer brands, you wouldn't know it unless you recognized the style or looked at the tag inside.  My point is, my tastes have changed and I think this is a direct result because of my profession where this is more the norm for women to have/ wear and also my financial situation. 

    Each of my bridesmaids are almost 30, well established in their careers and make good salaries on their own.  For them, I wouldn't want to get them the sterling silver Tiffany stamped item because I don't think they would even wear it.  I would rather get them things that are better quality, such as solid gold, that I know that they would like an would also wear at this point.  For this reason, I went with 10mm 18K yellow gold ball studs, and a 18K yellow gold and agate gem necklace among other things.  Luckily, I also only had 3 girls to buy for so I was able to spend more on each one!

    I think in the end, what it comes down to is what you think your girls would appreciate the best.  If I got married when the sterling silver Tiffany type jewelry was what I loved and what my girls loved, that is what I would get them and I know that they would be thrilled with it!  We just aren't into this type of thing anymore.  If you think your girls would love the Tiffany jewlery that is clearly Tiffany's, then get something that you can tell just by looking at it is clearly Tiffany's.

    Best wishes!

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    Pearl earings. Classic and versatile.

     
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    do you think they'll want tiffany?  if they're the type to love brands, then they will love your gift.  if they generally don't care about brands, then don't even bother with tiffany.  personally, i would love the bow necklace.  =)

     
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    jaylovessteez    September 19, 2010   CA

    if its tiffanys im sure they will love it! id like the jewlery over the keychain..

    My vote is the studs pearl or silver are cute

     
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    Arachna       nyc

    I love love love these

    http://www.tiffany.com/Shopping/Item.aspx?sku=GRP00330&mcat=&cid=&fromGrid=1&search_params=s+1-p+3-c+-r+-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+initials&search=1

    recognizably tiffanys and adorable to the max, my sister and I wear ours all the time, am wearing it right now at work actually

    I think as long as the girls are fairly young they will appreciate the gift.  They might or might not wear it a lot but they will still get a kick out of knowing they have piece from tiffanys. Sure it's overpriced but it is well made and lovely and with the above letters you can at least say that you're paying for the design.  :)

    I'm not a fan of pearl studs and of the choices above I'd go with the teardrop pendant or the bead earings.

    Also, how about including a gift reciept? 

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    I'm with some of the other commenters that it is a sweet gift, but choose something that is recognizably Tiffany's. Of these choices, I think the bow necklace fits the bill.

     

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