Weddingbee boards

OK, so thanks to you lovely bees, I have my accesories narrowed down a LOT.  The wedding is starting to have something to do with my personality instead of just being a hodgepodge of things neither of us object to (my fiance wanted a proper wedding.  I wanted to elope.  He doesn't care about wedding planning.  I have to plan HIS wedding.  So I like that it feels more like our wedding.)  

I'm between two headpieces... and whether or not to wear earrings.

The lilac and butterfly one goes well with our wedding theme (or would make it a theme...)  My BMs are wearing blue, green, and red, and my flowergirl is wearing yellow (all in their favorite or second favorite color, yay.).  Which makes purple and orange the only colors not in the party.  Moms are wearing purple, and dads have orange bouts.  The cake has butterfly decorations, but thus far those are the only butterflies in the whole wedding/reception.

The other one is a little more delicate (which I like) and...  I used to work as a strawberry picker.  I LOVE strawberries.  My fiance is also a berry nut.

I keep going back and forth between "perfect for the wedding" and "Lookattheprettyberries!"  I have long blond hair that'll just have some of the front hair twisted back and clipped to keep it out of my way, and curled in the back.  I would also add narrow ribbons to the strawberry one.

With this dress...

And MAYBE these earrings (if I go with earrings, I'll use these.)  Opinions on whether or not to wear them?  I like them, and I think they go well (and I like the symbolism of a claddagh).  I also think there's something to be said for my only jewelry that day being the rings from him.  Would they really add anything?

aw I do think that the strawberries are adorable. Who makes these? I haven't seen anything like that

They are from Etsy (a bee put me onto them.)  http://www.etsy.com/shop/gardensofwhimsy?ref=seller_info 

Oh I should have known, thats where all my favorite pieces are from! The strawberry one slipped by me though, super cute. I love all of her headpieces, I dont think you could go wrong with either!

OK, my MOH chimed in.  She says butterflies and asks how I could look at another since it matches everything and she loves it.  Decision MADE.  :D  

lol  That's not me in that photo.  Just a vendor's picture.