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  • poll: Which is worse?
    The dentist : (68 votes)
    51 %
    The gynecologist : (65 votes)
    49 %
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    I'm catching up on all of my doctor's appointments and made two today - one for the dentist and one for the gyno.

    Most people think I'm crazy, but I'm dreading the dentist WAY more than I'm dreading the gyno. The gyno is uncomfortable and embarrassing, but the dentist hurts and I have an irrational fear of going.

    Am I the only one?

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    haha, so true! my gyno is this really sweet woman who has this calm, gentle demeanor, and the dentist hurts way more!

    also, this reminds me i have drs' appointments to book too! thanks ;)

     
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    grace8367    September 6, 2009   Chicago

    You are not alone, I totally agree.  Plus the gyno is quicker, or at least mine is anyway

     
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    jackie-o    October 31, 2010   Seattle, WA

    No of course you're not the only one...For some reason I hate hate hate going to the dentist. I don't have any reason for not liking the dentist - I mean there isn't anything traumatic that has happened to me and I do love the way my teeth feel and look 72 hrs after the appointment, haahaahaa

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    Ohhh, I don't mind the gyno.  But the dentist is the WORST.  And the appointment takes so much longer than gyno.

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Well, your dentist shouldn't HURT unless you're having a procedure done, i.e. for your 6 month cleanings you should be pain free. If they hurt you while cleaning your teeth they're not doing a good job. 

    I'm kinda surprised, but the "privacy" factor for me made me choose gyno. I'd much rather endure pain, lol. 

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I totally agree!  I go to the denist when I'm supposed to (No cavities YET) but I hate it.  I always leave in pain, gums bleeding, headache.  Yuck!  And the chances that you'll need some kind of further work done are far higher than at the gyno.  The gyno is uncomfortable, but less than the dentist.  I mean, showing your junk to a stranger is never cool.  But at least they're not cleaning it and shoving sharp objects into it.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    I don't mind the gyno so much either.  I'd rather go to the gyno than the dentist.  But since you have to do both...such is life.

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    No way - though I hate going to the dentist, at least they numb my mouth. The gyno hurts every, single, time, and I can't get used to it. Maybe it's just me, but I absolutely dread the gyno.

     
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    BrianneG    June 5, 2010   Redondo Beach, CA

    I hate, hate, hate the dentist. It always hurts. Gynecologist only hurts when he takes a biopsy.

     
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    hergreenapples    October 23, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    I HATE going to the doctor (any doctor, not just for the lady parts!).

    I, for some reason, have never minded the dentist. In fact, I have been known to fall asleep at the dentist.

    I would SO prefer to show people my mouth than my hoo-ha.

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    wow, i must be in the minority here but i'd rather go to the dentist anyday!!! i have way more anxiety of the gyno....waaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy more. I dread it all year. Heck gimme a root canal instead!!

    (i am biased though cause FI is a dentist) Smile

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    I don't mind the gyno at all. It's so easy, quick (umm, hello, the whole thing takes like 60 seconds) and always pain-free.

    The dentist, on the other hand, is always painful. I truly hate it. I'll also admit, it's been a few years since I've gone because I dread it that much. I've had awful experiences with dentists poking at my gums and stuff. Just thinking about it gives me anxiety.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    The gyno only takes two second, but a cleaning can be up to an hour! I stopped going to the dentist for about 5 yrs because I have such extreme anxiety, but I go to the gyno 2x per year without a problem. Good luck!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I haaaate the dentistttttt.

     
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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    Ahahahha I dread the Gyno! Well actually at my last dentist appointment I had to take care of my very first crown and it hurt like no other, but the discomfot of the gyno still wins for me

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    I have never had a problem with the dentist. Annoying and uncomfortable? Yes, but not as bad as my yearly physical!

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    Dentist is way worse! I think I'm just used to going to the gyno, but never go to the dentist. Plus, I have REALLY sensitive teeth. Just the thought makes my mouth hurt!!!! And the dentist hurts all day and then some, while the gyno is only for a short time.

     
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    thefuturemrsgibbs    June 12, 2010   Northern California

    You're right the dentist does hurt, but the Gyno is awkward and embarrassing. I'd much rather see the Gyno than the dentist though.

     
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    bree72    December 31, 2008  

    I'd rather go to the dentist. I love my Gyno, but I still have quite a bit of anxiety before going. I don't really have that anxiety when I go to the dentist. 

    On a side note, the first time I went to my gynecologist, he asked if I was nervous, and when I said I was, he goes "don't worry, the dentist is way worse!" So I guess there must be a secret battle between gynecologists and dentists a brewin'.  

     
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    smyley    May 2010  

    Nah. Dentists and gynecologists have always been compared since both deal in small 'private' areas.  Both are necessary evils, but I never knew anyone who was really excited to see either professional. As a hygienist,I have to say that it does get tiresome with all the handholding and reassuring we have to do. Wink

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Honestly, I don't hate either.  Yes the gyno is uncomfortable but it doesn't take very long and it's necessary for my heal.  And the dentist doesn't freak me out.  The new place I go to I can barely feel them cleaning my teeth.

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    I HATE the gyno! I dont like the dentist, but I like the clean teeth feeling afterwards!! But ugh I cant stand going to the gyno!

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaate the dentist! hate hate hate it (I do go every 6 months and all but agh it is AWFUL!)

    gyno? not fun but I don't mind it as much...it also helps that we go there less often!!!!

     
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    jduck84    August 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I don't really mind the dentist, and I've always had nice doctors at the gyno (mostly), but I HATE the part where you have to put your feet in the stirrups - I feel like my legs just don't want to go that way.

    Plus I just went for my annual the other day and the swabbing was way more unpleasant than my trips to the dentist; for some reaosn it seemed worse this time around.

     
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    Really? The dentist is worse?

    I mean, neither is pleasant but....the gyno is no fun. Definitely worse, IMO.

     
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    JuneBride_26June2010    June 26, 2010   Indiana (legally married 13-Apr-2009)

    i actually don''t mind either - but with the dentist - maybe i'm weird...but i just had a root canal done a few weeks ago - and no joke, i could seriously have fallen asleep in the chair - it's just sooo comfortable! i'm not joking. :)

     
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    ILikePink    June 9, 2012   Minneapolis, MN

    My dentist is really mean. I need to find a new one. I actually have an appointment with a different office tomorrow. 

    My normal primary care doctor serves as my gyno too, and I feel super comfortable with her.

     
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    kericita    May 12, 2012   Dallas, TX

    Well if it's just a routine exam/cleaning for gyno/dentist then the gyno is worse!  Just because it's awkward to strip down and spread your legs for someone you see once a year.  Though if the dentist is a cavity or any kind of oral surgery the dentist is worse.

     
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    mrsawesome09    June 5, 2011   Madison, WI

    I love going to the dentist! Granted, my dentist and hygenist (they're married) have been my dentists since I had my first tooth, and they're family friends.  Their son is a groomsman!  I love my gyno, but I'd much rather go to the dentist!

     
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    thefuturemrsjewell    August 7, 2010   Washington DC

    dentist is by far the worst!

    My gyno is pretty cool, so I don't have a problem going.  But no matter how much I like my dentist, he's a family friend, I still cringe everytime I have to go!

     
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    kaybee    December 5, 2009   Oklahoma City

    I have really sensitive teeth and dread going to the dentist.

     
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    toothfairyb    September 4, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    Awh, as a Dental Hygienist, all you dental haters makes me sad! I don't hate going to the gyno either. Although I'm not overly thrilled to have my hoo-ha swabbed, it's just something I gotta do. Plus my gyno's a cool lady :)

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    the dentist is wayyyyyyy worse!  The gyno never hurts me!

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I like how clean my teeth feel AFTER the dentist @toothfairy (btw your name totally makes sense now lol) I'll give you that!

    but agh, the dentist is AWFUL! my teeth are all sensitive right now too because I used my crest white strips today....ouches!

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    I voted for dentist.

    My stuff is in good order down below, but I'm always getting in trouble for something with the dentist.

     
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    CupcakeLove       Melbourne, Australia

    The dentist, definitely! I am always avoiding appointments with that guy!

     
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    Lizabeth Lou    July 9, 2015  

    Dentist. I hate my teeth touched.

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    I have a dentist appointment Thursday so maybe my answer will change afterwards, but I HATE going to the gyno. It's been a few years since going to the dentist, but I never really had much a problem with them. Maybe it's because I had such a bad 1st experience with a gyno (17, had a abcess that was painful and needed to be removed. plus the dr. was not so good).

     
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    EmeraldR    May 1, 2011   New Jersey

    Tell the dentist that because you get so nervous that you need the gas at your appointment. It will help you relax and not focus on the pain or being uncomfortable.

     

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