Which officiant should I choose?

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: Which officiant should I choose?
    1 "Jane" : (2 votes)
    12 %
    2 "Mary" : (14 votes)
    82 %
    Keep looking and find someone else! : (1 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 5
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    1064 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    @LadyMoriarty:  hmm that is tough, well i voted for 2. if i talked to someone and they seemed nicer/more down to earth i would favor them despite the number of times they’ve been reviewed

    Post # 6
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    3948 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Can anyone you know in NY meet with them?  I didn’t vote but would lean towards #2.

    If you look up “gentile” in the dictionary you can find out what it means (Christian) …. I sort of think she meant “genteel.”    

    Post # 8
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    3948 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @LadyMoriarty:   That’s how I read it – if it is cookie cutter, she can go with the lower price.  To actually get your names right, it’s 600.  LOL.

    Are there other choices?

    Post # 9
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    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I assume she means if you want a heavily personalized ceremony, it will take more time and cost more money?

    I would DEFINITELY go with the second one!

    Post # 10
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    20 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Do you think you could skype with them? That’s maybe the second best thing to meeting them in person. But I agree, the second person (Mary) sounds much nicer.

    Post # 11
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    1400 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I think you should ask both of them if they’d be willing to Skype or talk on the phone with you, because it’s so important to make sure you like your officiant’s vibe, and you really need to hear their voice before booking them! And you can find all sorts of good questions to ask them about online 🙂 Good luck!

    @LadyMoriarty:  I forgot to hit reply before typing that, so this is at the bottom…

    Post # 12
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    1102 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @LadyMoriarty:  I would see about talking to the person like hearing them speak 1st… the 1st one sounds like she damands reviews and likes i wouldn’t go with her thats not what its about 

     

    i would want to speak with who ever marries me 1st thought like talk to for real not email, i talk to the 2nd lady get an over all vibe and feel if she fits you if she does go with her if not keep looking 

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