(Closed) Which one is mailed out first?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

That’s a great question. I think it depends on when the shower is taking place. For me, my shower was a secret and the way my Mom does things is that she sends out the invites no more than 2 months in advance. Well my shower was mid July so I am sure my mom sent out the shower invites end of May or beginning of June. I sent out my wedding invites at the end of June, so my guests would have received the shower invite first BUT they did receive an STD making them aware of the big date.

Post # 5
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think it doesn’t matter, bc most ppl know that if they get a shower invitation that means they will also be getting a wedding invitation. In fact, most weddings I’ve been to, I’ve actually recieved the shower invite before the wedding invite and didn’t think it was odd at all.

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