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posted 6 months ago in Waiting
  • poll: Which ring?
    Pave (left) : (27 votes)
    59 %
    Solitaire (right) : (19 votes)
    41 %
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    Wannabee
    brightlikeadiamond    May 6, 2015  

    I'm planning on proposing to my girlfriend over Christmas (probably Christmas morning) and am deciding on the ring at the moment.

    by way of background - were both 25 and have been together for 4 years. She's been talking about engagement for a while and a few of our friends have got engaged in the past few months (I was planning in any event).

    She doesn't like big diamonds and has already made that clear. She works in law enforcement and I suspect she would probably feel a bit conscious of it. 

    I've narrowed it to two rings - both are top graded diamonds (F or above, GIA certified and excellent cut). The pave ring is a 0.29 diamond, the solitaire 0.25.

    I have attached a picture of both together and would be extremely grateful for any views!

    http://img26.imageshack.us/i/imagefqyy.jpg/

     
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    relaxedabout it    May 1, 2016   EDD 1/1/14

    I like the solitaire!!

     
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    Janineforever    February 2, 2014   Delaware

    I love the pave, but from the way that you describe her I think she may like to solitaire. They are both beautiful. I'm sure she will love either one. Congratulations!

     
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    dewingedpixie    February 24, 2014   DC Metro - Disney World Wedding

    I like the pave. I think that though she doesnt like big diamonds she will like the added femininity of the pave. Its just enough bling with the little diamond.

     
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    miss narwhal    October 2013   Maryland

    I prefer the pave. I would put in a poll!

     
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    AcheneMalefic    March 2, 2009   US

    Pave diamonds can fall out of the setting easily (and especially if she's working in law enforcement). You can't go wrong with a solitarire and let her pick out a band she likes! ;)

     
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    Mz_HyProfyl        Lady In Waiting

    I like the pave one. but like stated before, diamonds can fall out easliy. so go for the solitare. Good Luck with the proposal!!

     
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    MrsB22    April 19, 2013   Baltimore

    the left!

     
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    tisposeroperche    May 8, 2014  

    Both rings are great! I would prefer the pave but for her being in law enforcement, the simple but lovely solitaire will work better.

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    both are beautiful.  i think from how you described your gf, i would pick the solitaire for her.  the pave one may be too blingy for her.

     
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    jlbecker    June 1, 2013  

    I like the pave. It's not too much, just enough.

     
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    SoonToBeMrsLBee    January 18, 2015  

    The one on the right. The solitaire. I feel that the pave one with all the bling compenstates for a "big diamond." There is a chance that they can fall out easily. And with her being in law enforcement...it may not be a great idea. 

    *Add a poll!* Wink

    Good luck on the proposal!

     
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    cyclingchick    October 11, 2014   Texas

    Both are beautiful, but the pave gets my vote...congrats!

     
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    ClassyKate    June 22, 2013   New Jersey

    I love the pave setting!

     
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    I love the pave but the solitaire might be more practical for her work. 

     
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    Chaoslight    January 14, 2015   Loveland

    I must be in the minority, because I don't really care for pave settings.  I'd be concerned about it rubbing/scratching my other fingers.  I prefer a smooth ring against my fingers.

     
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    joya_aspera    December 2016  

    Both are beautiful and classic. And with that cut and color they should both look fantastic in real life!

    Honestly I love both of these.

    However, you might want to choose based on what kind of wedding band you see her wearing it with. Maybe the solitare, with a pave wedding band, for example? I personally find that the prettiest look.

    The solitare is in general a little more flexible and a little more classic that way. If she prefered no pave at all, she could get that with the solitare, and a plain wedding band. It seems like that's slightly more likely than her wanting to maximize the pave (pave e-ring band and pave wedding band).

     
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    Marry Jane    March 14, 2015   United States

    I'd go with the solitaire. Since she will want to wear it at work, that will be more durable. Those pave things get dirty really quick, too and don't look as shiny after a month or so and they never look the same. I have a RHR that has pave diamonds (it was sooo pretty at the time), and it is basically impossible to keep it looking nice because dirt builds up in the cracks if you do even normal activities like petting a dog or exercising ;p.

     
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    brightlikeadiamond    May 6, 2015  

    Thanks for all your comments! 

     

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