Post # 1
Fiance and i are choosing to just have neices and nephews at the wedding…so i am not sure which one would be best for my situation for “unwanted guests” !? The first will have the envelope be addressed to the people who we want to attend and they would have to write in their names as well….the second wording option has the guests put in the count that will be attending.
Post # 4
Which one would you recommend to help eliminate unwanted guests showing up :p
( i mean this in the nicest way)
Post # 5
I would do the second one, but add a line that says, “X seats have been reserved in your honor.”
Post # 6
I also recommend the line that says # of seats reserved in your honor. I didn’t do this and I really wish I did. Some people added guests, and some people wrote just their name and then 1 guest attending when they really meant themselves plus one. It got confusing!
Maybe you could do:
___ of 3 accept with pleasure (or whatever number)
___ decline with regret
You could alsio use “Wouldn’t miss it” and “Will celebrate from afar”