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I am already way, way too indecisive but at this point, I am 98% sure I want a short dress at this point, but am having a hard time figuring out which one. I want something that's a little more bridal than just a cocktail dress (don't want to accidentally be less dressed up than my guests!) but am not into anything super pouffy. The black sashes on some of them were just tied on at the salon, so don't let my weird thing for black sashes sway your decision on which dress you like best on me.
Please let me know what you think! Our wedding will be outdoors in California in September, fun, unfussy and semi-formal. Thanks in advance, and thanks to everyone who has replied to my 800 or so previous omg wedding dress panic posts. <333
Dress 1- Martina Liana lace - it can be ordered wit and without the sparkles. not sure which I would do.

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Dress 2- Priscilla of Boston Halter

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dress 3 - Priscilla of Boston lace pencil skirt

from the back (with a sash this time)

Dress 4 - Priscilla of Boston strapless. This one was a weird length on me and had a tulle detail at the bottom, so it looks a little weird in the pictures from hiking the skirt up and hiding the tulle underneath. There would be no tulle sticking out randomly if it were really my dress.

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That Pricilla is OMG STUNNING! It reminds me of Grace Kelly. It leaves the other ones in the dust IMO.
Wow! I cant get over how pretty dress #2 is and those heels you had went perfect with it.
I just LOVE the Priscilla of Boston dress on you. It is so flowy and so fun, that I think you'll be able to dance the night away and still feel like a million bucks! It so far exceeds the other dresses in my mind!
I just looked at #2 on the Pricilla web site and it looks 100x better on you than it does the model.
#2, hands down! They are all beautiful, but this one just seems more dressy and bridal to me.
I really like dress 4. It gives you such a lovely shape, and it looks like a fun dress.
#1 or #2-- but #2 is my favorite. It was the right blend of "semi-formal" and "fun" that you are looking for! It looked amazing on you. :) I liked #1 WITH the sparkles, otherwise it might be too casual. I also thought #4 was too casual.
Dress #2! Looks amazing and perfect on you!
The first dress looks a bit strange because the skirt has an odd shape, it would probably look better if it was tea length. Dress #3 is nice, but the pencil shape always reminds me of an office outfit. Dress #4 looks like cotton and too plain somehow, not bridal enough
I think #2 hands down! It fits your shape like it was made for you! Not to mention it screams "OUTDOOR WEDDING"!
#2...the structure gives you such a great shape and doesn't chop you up, and the flowiness speaks "wedding"!!
It's def my favorite of all of the ones yo u've posted!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE #2 on you. Absolutely beautiful! And yes, very Grace Kelly...classic and stylish. :-)
Dresses 1 and 3 were lovely but seemed...idk...not "bride-y" enough??? Does that make sense? Dress #4 is very pretty but reminds me more of a prom dress than a wedding dress.
Whichever you chose, you will absolutely stunning! :-)
Thank you guys so much for the input!
@tksjewelry: OMG thank you. :DD
@Usuki: I had that exact issue with the pencil skirt! It's a business suit type of skirt cut... my fiance really liked it because there's no pouf, but I get an office vibe, too. You should have seen it before we folded the skirt up above the knee - it hit at a weird length and looked even more businessy.
There's one more thing I didn't put in the initial post, because I really wanted to get some feedback on the dresses themselves first. Dress #2 was the clear favorite in the store. My friends LOVED it and I was a little torn between 2 and 4 - I loved 2 in the store, but felt like maybe 4 was getting short shrift because it didn't fit as well. Last night I showed the pictures to my fiance who I generally trust more than myself on fashion stuff and...
He HATES #2. Thought the pleated top of the skirt looked like venetian blinds and thought it was awful and pouffy. He doesn't really mind if I wear it... he showed me the sort of thing he likes and it tends towards way too simple and figure hugging, so he's fine and totally supportive of me picking something that he doesn't like, but I feel bad. (for the record, he likes the silhouette of 3 but hates the lace and thinks 4 is his favorite but a little full in the skirt) I think part of it is paranoia because I don't generally trust my own fashion sense, though. Now I see why people don't show the grooms their dresses! Though finding out he hates it the day of the wedding would probably be worse...
Love them all...have you tried Stephaine James....Her dresses are amazing...Good luck.
@jiggly: Thanks. I have oogled her website plenty but not seen any of her dresses in person. They seem like they're a little too retro for me, and also the skirts are so full that I'd get a little swallowed. Or maybe that is just me trying to avoid being tempted to spend the $$$ on them. ;)
Ohh i just love you in #2, it's SO gorgeous and you look like a bride! :) I bet a black sash could even be tied into that one which (IMO) is always stunning. It's too bad that your FI isn't a fan of the dress but I'm sure he'll get over it, hehe. Good luck!!
The halter! I audibly gasped when I saw it! You look stunning in it!!
The Priscilla Halter is stunning on you. GET IT! It's bridal and not too casual like you wanted to avoid.
#2 flatters your body so well!! You look gorgeous.
Big fan of the black sash myself. I bet you could wear one with that dress. It'd look really great.
The Priscilla of Boston Halter dress, for sure! I love the shape of it and how elegant and floaty it looks :-). It reminds me of a vintage movie star (you could have fun with hair and makeup if you went that direction)
I like the other Pricilla dress, too, but it's not as dressy. I'm not as much a fan of the straight skirt ones (even though I love lace)
Oops, just read the post about your FI hating #2. Shoot.
In that case, I'd say keep looking (even though I think on your wedding day, he's going to think you're gorgeous regardless and probably won't even notice the details of your dress). I've seen some lovely, unique vintage dresses on e-bay that are short...
I suggest keep looking. #2 was the very best of the group but the chest looked a bit too dated like a vintage nurse costume from the 1940s in my opinion. You're really young and the lace overlays make your body look old. Try something more youthful and skip the black sashes, they are cutting you in half and are distracting on photographs. you have a great figure and beautiful skin - I suggest wearing your hair down and going with a more ivory or blush base for fabric and a more feminine skirt - skip the pencil shape altogether. And finally, stop showing your man -it's your day and if you feel awesome when you put the dress on, you'll know that's the one. Just my 2 cents, I'm a visual snob and i'm just one person. :)
@MaybeeBecca: Yeah, I know! It was so delfating when I found out he didn't like it. I am tempted to get it anyway since he seems to be in the minority and I've gotten more of a sense of what he DOES like - short dresses that are basically sundresses or super basic long ones with slim skirts and no details whatsoever.
@sfchick: I totally appreciate the comments, though I am flattered you think I'm really young looking - I'm 28 and will be 29 by the wedding. I am definitely planning on wearing my hair down and try to remember to take it down for pictures but there was one lazy bun that snuck in. ;) Do you have any suggestions or ideas on what to look for? I am generally pretty fashion clueless so it's been hard for me to figure out exactly what I want.
Dress 2 looks great on you!
I like 1 with the sparkles
I like 3 but not 4
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