Which to wear on wedding day?

posted 2 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

Which one will you wear more? Which ring are you getting a wedding band for? I like both. If you live the first more, wear that one. Or wear it as your right hand ring that day.

BabyDeer9:  

Post # 5
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4939 posts
Honey bee

BabyDeer9:  I agree with Bridey77. You should wear both of them! Your first ring is so special and obviously so special to you that I think you wold feel sad if it wasn’t included/present during your wedding. Maybe wear the second one (because that’s the one your FI prefers and the one he picked out on his own) on your left hand, and wear the first one on your right hand.

They are both beautiful rings!!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

BabyDeer9:  nice band…. When you look back at your wedding pics, which do you want to see in them? I say if you’ll wear the first ring more, wear that one! 

Post # 7
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1201 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: A very pretty church.

BabyDeer9: If they’re attending your wedding and…watching you get married then I am guessing they will know you’re ‘taken’. It sounds like your fiancé is embarrassed about the size of your engagement ring, which is a pity. My understanding is that it is traditional to wear your engagement ring on your right hand during the wedding. As it sounds like you would prefer to wear your engagement ring, you should.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

BabyDeer9:  I think u should wear the one you love the most! He is very lucky to have a woman who is NOT flashy and worried about impressing others. or as PPs have said, maybe u can even wear both 🙂

It sounds like maybe FH is thinking that ppl will look down on HIM for not getting u a bigger ring, and not necessarily you for not having a huge ring. In the end all that matters is what makes you happiest because u are the one wearing it 🙂 if ppl really judge u by the size of your ring (which I doubt anyone would!!), then that’s not ppl I’d want to surround myself with anyways…

Hope this helps!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

BabyDeer9:  I think you have the answer.. Wear the first one! You seem happiest with that ring. Wear the one that’s most special. 

Post # 12
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Honey bee

BabyDeer9:  I know I’m posting after you already said you made your decision, but I just wanted to add support for your choice to wear your first ring at your wedding. It’s a beautiful ring and obviously very special to you (as it should be — it’s your engagment ring, after all! <3).

I think it’s a fantastic decision to wear it. It’ll be beautiful with your band, and it has such special feelings and memories associated with it. When you look back at your pictures with your beautiful engagement ring in them, you will always have warm memories of your special day.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Cape May

BabyDeer9:  just wanted to stop by and say wearing the first ring is absolutely the right decision. At the end of the day wear the the ring you would miss the most. It sounds like your very attached to that ring so let that be the ring you wear in the ceremony. 

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