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Which would you rather attend (as a guest)

posted 2 years ago in Ceremony
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  • poll: Friday or Sunday Ceremony?
    Friday : (70 votes)
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    Sunday : (31 votes)
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    limbobride       Midwest

    A ceremony on a Friday or a Sunday? Thanks!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    Friday so I can stay out all night and par-tay~ However I'd love to attend a Sunday brunch wedding, it sounds so friggin sophsiticated...

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    I'd say Sunday, but depending on the style of reception, a Friday might be better. (I.e. so one wouldn't have to go to work early on Monday after a late night).

     
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    luli29    October 9, 2010   Massachusetts

    If its just a ceremony, both are fine, but I prefer Friday.

     

    If you're having a reception too, Friday is tons better...most people can enjoy the night fully knowing they don't have to end the night early for work the next day!

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    Sunday.  For either I would have to take time off work.  For Friday I would need to leave work way early so I can go home, get ready and get to the ceremony.  At least with the Sunday ceremony i'm free to get ready at my owm pace and if i want to drink and stay out late, I could just take a few hours off monday morning.

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    Are you having a dinner/dance reception? If so then definitely a friday - that way I can party all night!

    If it is a restaurant reception and most of your guests are local than I would say either is fine!

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    i say friday because i like to shorten the end of the week, rather than have to go back to work right after the most fun part of the weekend! plus if you are religious people might want to go to church on sunday (depending on time and stuff)

     
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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    I think it totally depends on where your guests live.  As an out of town guest, the difference between me taking off Friday to travel and Monday to travel is really not an issue.  If I lived near you, I'd have to leave work early on Friday, but I wouldn't necessarily need to take off after a Sunday.  I had a Sunday wedding, the reception ended around 10, and it was great.

     
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    Miss Bliss    January 2, 2010   Iowa

    Are you just having a ceremony or are you having a ceremony or reception?  I think both days are great.  I have been to a couple Sunday morning and Friday evening ceremony/receptions.  The Sunday morning ones were smaller and the reception following was more like a champagne brunch-no dancing or anything like that.  The Friday evening ones were more like your typical Saturday night bashes, just on a Friday.  I really liked both, each gives off their own vibe.

     
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    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    I think for me it would depend on how far the wedding was from me.  If it was close, Sunday or Friday but if it was a few hours drive Sunday would not work for me.

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    For me, the timing would matter a little.  If it were an evening wedding, I would prefer Friday.  If it's earlier in the day (presumably when I'd be at work on Friday), I'd say Sunday.

     
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    archibee    10/09/09   los angeles

    For some it is easier to cut the week short instead of missing a busy Monday. You might feel like you spend the whole week catching up if you missed the start of the week.

     
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    Boston Bee      

    I say Sunday brunch or Friday evening.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I would say Sunday. Friday feels like more of a party since you don't have to get up early the next day, but it's a lot harder to make it to a Friday wedding after working all day. Not everyone can take the afternoon/day off from work whenever they want to.

     
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    starcharades    December 31, 2011   Philadelphia

    Definitely Friday. Sunday I need to rest before the upcomming week.

     
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    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    Friday since it's a kickoff to the weekend. A Sunday wedding will be very short and you may have tons of people decline unless the following Monday is a holiday, since not everyone is able to take off work. Although with the amount of time given when an invitation or save the date arrives, people will have plenty of opportunity to request the day off but it's up to their boss's discretion. 

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    Depends on the timing but I am going to go with Friday. That way I don't have to worry about getting up early the next morning for work. Even if the reception ended early on Sunday...it would still be hard for me to get it together for Monday morning.

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I voted Friday, but I think Sunday weddings are great too - I don't really have a problem with either!!

     
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    Beav1279    December 27, 2009   Austin, TX

    I'm so exhausted after a long work week that a Friday wedding wouldn't be very fun for me.. unless of course I had a nap first Wink

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I say Friday, but I'm pretty biased considering my wedding/reception is going to be on a Friday night. I know that people will have to get off work a little early if they want to make the ceremony, but the dinner/dance is not going to be until later in the evening, and I won't be too upset if people don't make it to the ceremony and just come to the reception. I just think a Friday night would be better than a Sunday because people will be able to stay out late and won't have to worry about the start of the workweek like they would be on a Sunday.

     
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    polkadot    May 22, 2010   DC

    I've been to both, and I definitely preferred the Friday wedding. The Sunday wedding was nice, but a lot of people left on the earlier side because they knew they had to get up early to go to work the next day. The downside of a Friday wedding is that people will have to take off work, but at least they know that they have the whole weekend ahead of them, so they won't be rushing to get home as soon as you cut the cake.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    Friday!

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    I"m biased since I'm having a Friday night wedding :) It was the only way we'd be able to use our dream venue, and most of our guests are local. The ceremony will be at 6:30 or 7, so hopefully late enough to allow people to get there if they have to work that day.

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    It depends on if you plan to have a reception.  If no reception, Sunday.  If reception, Friday.

     
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    ScarletJwl    September 24, 2011   Northern Virginia/Vermont

    I would prefer Sunday during the day.  Between Friday evening and Sunday evening I really have no preference.

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    I voted Friday, but our wedding is on a Sunday.  Do what works best overall...  You'll NEVER be able to please everyone.

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    I voted Friday, assuming I was in-town and wouldn't have to take off work to travel. If I did have to travel, though, and this wasn't an immediate family member, I may have to miss it because of the day.

     
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    frozen yogurt    April, 2010  

    I think it depends what time of day the wedding is.  A sunday brunch wedding would be great, but if it was evening I'd probably prefer a Friday. 

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Friday! Gives me a long weekend!

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    i think it depends on if you have a lot of out of towners. since most my guests will be travelling for my wedding, i would have picked a sunday for my wedding if saturday wasn't an option

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    Friday, so all my attention could be on attending the wedding.

     
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    91011Bride    September 10, 2011   Destination wedding

    Depending on the time of your wedding and reception.  A Sunday brunch themed wedding sounds fun. 

     
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    I've done both and definitely vote for Friday.  Keep in mind that some of your guests may have to take the day off work - but, for the wedding I just went to - no one 'really' minded.  I much prefer it over a Sunday wedding and knowing work is looming the next day.

     
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    JoonBee    06/2010  

    I went through the same dilemma and decided Friday is much better for an evening wedding.  Our wedding is on a Friday.

     

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