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We're doing the following:
My Mom - one flower to attach to her clutch
My Dad - bout
His Mom - Corsage to pin on chest
His Dad- bout
Groomsmen - bouts
Ushers - bouts
If we had living grandparents they would most certainly get a flower/corsage and bout.
Also, we have 3 readers. Two women will be getting corsages and the man a bout.
Our guest book attendant/program hander outer - corsage
It's a lot but we just want everyone to feel included too.
so...how about my grandparents girlfriends? both grandmothers have passed, but i dearly love the girlfriends...i would feel strange leaving them out but i'm not sure if it's legit. one has been around since i was a little girl and one has only been around in the past few years. thoughts?
I'm a little bit in the same boat.. I have a set of step-grandparents who I really love, but am not extremely close to. Do you think I should give flowers to them?
@JennHasFeet, I think you would be fine if you wanted to give them corsages, I def. think it's legit.. and also wonderful that you really like both of them! I say go for it.
I have on my list: Groomsmen, Ring Bearers, Fathers, Grandfathers, Godfathers, Readers, Godmothers, Program Attendants, Grandmothers, Mothers.
I think it's just for the important people in your life and wedding party that you would like to have stand out on that day.
I am giving flowers to pretty much everyone that it crosses my mind to give them to. Better to do so and be inclusive and gracious than to unintentionally slight someone. I am giving corsages to my dad's wife, and to my stepdad's stepmother (my step-step-grandma, who's husband, my step-grandpa, is passed). I am also giving flowers to our readers, ushers, and guestbook girls.
my list is
my mom and dad
his mom and dad
groomsmen
all the grandparents
the preacher
the pianist
im not having ushers or program attendants so i didnt worry bout those
maybe i'm off but my list:
1 mom
1 mom-in-law
1 daddy
3 sisters-in-law (they aren't bridesmaids)
2 brothers in law (they aren't groomsman)
2 grandmothers
I really dont want to get FMIL a corsage, i dont think she deserves the recognition after all the things she's done to try to destroy and sabotage our wedding, and they're not contributing AT ALL (financially, emotionally, nothing) but I also don't want to be looked down upon for not doing so.

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Here's the list so far... Do you typically give other family members corsages or boutonnieres?
His mom and dad
My mom and dad
My 2 grandmas
My 1 grandpa
(His grandparents have all passed)
Groomsmen