No private space at reception.  tiny fault.
more by Rgeddy
How will you get your dress off at the end of the night?
For those having a sparkler send off....
more in Reception
Venue troubles...need advice :o(
Vendor dispute on weddingwire.com
more in Boards
Honeymoon help- 'nicer' digital camera recommendations?

Who cleans up after reception?

posted 2 years ago in Reception
  • 1 Members Subscribed To Topic
  •  
    1.
    Member
    2,188 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Rgeddy    June 13, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    Our caterer will of course clean up everything from food, plates to tables, linens, etc.  My question is who takes care of the other "personal" stuff - like centerpieces, flowers, vases, guest book, gifts, cards, extra favors, candy buffet stuff, bathroom baskets??

    Should I enlist our attendants?  Some of them are from out of town and only a few will have cars (and potentially drunk).  Should I ask relatives to make sure these things get collected? 

     
    2.
    Member
    2,301 posts
    Buzzing bee
    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    Are you having a DOC? If you are, she would do all that. If not, you could ask your MOH or a family member.

     
    2.
    Member
    2,301 posts
    Buzzing bee
    kate169    May 21, 2011   Virginia

    Are you having a DOC? If you are, she would do all that. If not, you could ask your MOH or a family member.

     
    3.
    Hostess
    7,296 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    Our coordinator at our reception venue will take care of it. Otherwise, these personal (and important) things are often entrusted to the best man, the maid of honor and/or the couple's parents.

     
    4.
    Member
    42 posts
    Newbee
    thebrigade    June 5, 2010   Grand Rapids, MI

    I was just thinking about this yesterday when I meet with the manager at my reception venue.  She asked me if I had a Master of Ceremonies (I didn't even know those existed!)

    Basically I'm just going to ask the FFIL if he can help because he happens to have a van!

     
    5.
    Hostess
    7,296 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    @thebrigade: Often, your DJ doubles as your DJ and MC (Master of Ceremonies). Is this the case for you? I, however, would not expect those duties to be performed by my DJ/MC.

     
    6.
    Member
    1,575 posts
    Bumble bee
    jaylii9    September 5, 2010  

    Our Doc will be tying up loose odds and ends at the end of our reception.

    If you don't have a DOC, make sure you make plans with some family members so that they can help with clean-up, delivering presents etc...

     
    7.
    Member
    2,099 posts
    Buzzing bee
    caitlanc    September 12, 2009   Western Slope of Colorado

    We didn't have a DOC but we were fortunately able to leave everything overnight and clean up the next day.  I'm guessing this probably isn't the case for you though?

     
    8.
    Member
    1,053 posts
    Bumble bee
    SweetAdelineXO    June 5, 2010   NJ

    We have the bridal party in charge of gifts, guest book, personal items, etc. the florist is handling any leftover centerpieces and balloons and the caterer is cleaning everything else.

     
    9.
    Member
    3,006 posts
    Sugar bee
    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    I've asked my mom to make sure that anything personal goes with her in the cab back to the house. And she'll probably have a couple helpers do it - most likely my MOH, the Best Man, my sister and my friends who'll be setting up that morning.

     
    10.
    Member
    632 posts
    Busy bee
    kaybee    December 5, 2009   Oklahoma City

    I had a list made of who took what home.  My bridesmaids and family each took home a centerpiece.  Also our attendants and families took the linens, decorations, and gifts and we picked them up later.

     
    11.
    Member
    2,188 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Rgeddy    June 13, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    thanks for the info!

    We are not having a DOC.  I'm hoping my MOH & parents will help (MOH is a event planner anyways!).  Gotta be out of there by 10 or 11pm (gotta check). 

     
    12.
    Member
    777 posts
    Busy bee
    lampshade127    March 27   Houston

    We asked that each bridesmaid and groomsman clean up 1 table centerpiece. We had big glass cylinders with small ones around them, all filled with water. It was probably a hassle but everyone handled it well. And really, cleaning up one is not all that time consuming. I left the boxes for the glassware with the venue so that everything could be picked up.

    Our venue took care of linens & charger plates, although we provided them

    My sister (MOH) was in charge of all of the important things--cake serving set, toasting flutes, cards, pictures, etc.

    My sisters' boyfriends took care of loading gifts into my parents' car.

     
    13.
    Hostess
    5,572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    I had my aunts all help with the take down of the items owned by us.  I think a florist would take her items and the DOC the rest, otherwise.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    rachgirl82 28
    kate02121 12
    ndreighton 11
    louiseW 10
    ozpeony 8
    Lyndzo 7
    cbeyelia 6
    rivierabridal 6
    slicey19 5
    andielovesj 5

    Reception

    User Posts Today
    Miss Mochaccino 3
    Rush1986 1
    Zouave 1
    More