- Mrs Grape
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
I went to a friend’s wedding this weekend and was struck for the first time by how much wedding-y stuff DH and I didn’t do when we got married. I was fine with not having a big party or a big ceremony (we went to the courthouse and had a small 16-person restaurant reception), but for some reason, not having a first dance is bugging me right now. It was one of the few things I really wanted to do, and I’m a little bit bummed out that we didn’t get to have one. I’m glad we went about getting married the way we did, but missing out on that one thing kind of sucks.
I know I’m being ridiculous for being even the slightest bit bothered by this, so does anyone have any suggestions for getting over this hump? (The more outrageous, the better!) Also, did anyone else not have a first dance? Share your stories, please!