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    amanda44    August 13, 2011   kalispell

    I've just started my wedding planning and we are having around 200 people but don't really want to go to much over 200. How many are you guys having?

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010  

    150 cocktail style :)

     
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    marci_607    June 25, 2010  

    Well we started out with 120...but now we have 220! (yikes!) It is going to be fun to include more people, though so we are making it work Smile

     
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    Janana    September 4, 2010   North Dakota

    We only wanted 250 MAX but now it looks like 330.

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    200

     
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    JustlikeHeaven    March 6, 2009  

    around 220 people but hoping only 200 rsvp or show up =]

     
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    pennednpapered    September 18, 2010   Alabama

    We started out thinking 200-250, but it's getting closer to 300. I'm excited, but some days I secretley wish to elope.

     
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    Mrs2theDr    April 16, 2010   Chicago, IL

    Hmm...between 160-180...hoping it falls within the lower range!

     
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    twalila    May 2010   Ohio

    Wre originally thinking between 200-250...but then we fell in love with a venue with a 150 cap, so we've cut our list to about 140 (hoping for closed to 120 to show so it does't feel too squished).  I have a really big, really closed family, so it breaks my heart that we can't invite EVERYone we'd like.

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    We are inviting around 400.  Our reception venue can hold about 330. 

    Most of our guests are families, so if one declines, it usually knocks out about 3.

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    150, full sit down dinner and the whole deal.

     
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    junebee10    June 26, 2010   Wisconsin

    480. My fiance has a HUGE family.

     
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    hermitcrab    June 2010   NYC

    wow @junebee10 that is huge.  we are inviting 315/320 or so and hopefully will end up somewhere between 250 and 300.

     
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    hopewell    July 31, 2010   Baltimore, Maryland

    Inviting 225 but anticipate it will be more like 140 since a bunch are courtesy invites.  Heavy hors d'oeuvres in the afternoon, though one caterer said "oh, people will expect enough to make a full meal" - really? at 2:30 pm?  Then they'll have to be disappointed, lady-who-is-trying-to-upsell-me. 

     
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    We'll be somewhere between 150-200. Its a pretty big range that obviously impacts cost a TON (we're doing a buffet-style dinner reception) so I'm really anxious to get the official RSVPs!

     
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    libra5979    04/18/10   Arizona

    WE have 207 on the guest list. 105 have RSVP'd so far. Only 2 have said no, so I'm starting to think we won't get down to the 150 I estimated.....

     
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    Sirouhi    8/28/10   Brooklyn/Cape Cod

    Ugh- how embarassing is it that I don't even know anymore? I think it is somewhere in the 420+ range. 

    PLUS- my dad (who refused to give me his guest list) keeps saying things like "Let me know how many people can't come, cause I've got a ton of people I've got to invite to this thing."

    And he's not kidding.

     
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    verosara    March 27, 2010   LA, California

    We began at 200, now it's 250, but looking more like 260.

     
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    marlew    October 23, 2010   Ajax, Ontario

    250, hoping to get around 210 actually coming.

    I got invited to a wedding last year that was almost 800 people.  I didn't go but I can only imagine what it would have been like.

     
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    Whew, some of you ladies know a ton of people! We're inviting about 225 and estimating about 175 will come...But who knows?? It's a source of nervousness for me...

     
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    brendamar    December 24, 2011   Puerto Rico (live in VA)

    i have 200 so far, but that was my first list.  I'm thinking it'll be 250 or so.  I'm all for a huge guestlist, the more the merrier!!!  My wedding is in Puerto Rico, but 75% of the guestlist already live there, and it's xmas eve, and what puerto rican doesn't love a good xmas eve party, so i'm assuming most will be coming!

     
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    YSQueen    October 9, 2011   Atlanta

    Well....we'll probably invite around 260 - 275. Hoping to get no more than 250 which would about 200 RSVPs with approx. 35 children and 15 potential crashers.

     
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    Miss Biner    November 5, 2011  

    I don't think we know more than 100 people... Embarassed

     
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    Janana    September 4, 2010   North Dakota

    I'm no longer as paniced about my list but it still seems huge!

     
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    andy113    August 14, 2010   DC

    guest list is at 320 (so far) not including boyfriends or +1 for anyone! we're hoping for 220-250. we are about 75% out of town and distant relatives. so we'll see!

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    I have no idea. I have Mr. KM's list, and my parents list... I haven't even bothered making mine til I see how many that ads up to!

     
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    daniellemybelle    June 19, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    Miss Biner, you'd be really surprised how many people you know! I was hoping to have 100-125 guests but it looks like we will be lucky to keep it at 200! We are inviting about 280 but many of those are courtesy invitations/out of towners who will not travel. My DOC said to expect 2/3 to 3/4 - 185 to 210. Definitely bigger than what we would prefer, but that would as small as we could get it without excluding any people we are close to, and we didn't want to do that. We even had to make some hard cuts to get it down to that!

     
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    PortlandBride    April 24, 2010   Portland

    Well, we just mailed out 2,000 invitations today, but are expecting about 700 people. My fiance's dad is the head pastor of our church, and the whole family has been very involved with the church for the last 15 years, so it's important to us to include those who would like to be included. It's going to be a huge party!

     
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    tarahartman    June 25, 2011   Hamburg, PA

    our guest list is 250-300, we're assuming everyone will come (mostly family believe it or not..) luckily our venue is onky 20-30 dollars a plate! PHEW!

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    270....eeek!!! The list keeps growing!!!

     
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    bamm    June 5th 2010/August 15th 2010   Seoul

    300 to the Korean wedding - and 200 of those are coworkers we MUST invite! It's horrible!  100 to the Canadian wedding (and only 5 are double invites to the Canadian and Korean weddings).  So that means 400 in total.

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    wwooww you guys are having some huge weddings!  Originally it was 150.. it's up to about 210 now.

     
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    MrsJellybean227    January 1, 2011   TN

    We're still working on ours but so far we're sending about 125 invites. Most of those are people of families of 4 with only about 30single people who are invited to bring a guest. We're welcoming a big bash. We like people. :) All of our families are invited, but we doubt most will come as they all live in another state.

     
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    Ruby Falls    September 2010  

    Is 200 considered big? My mom has told me that anything over 100 is big but I think her opinions are outdated :)

     
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    bloodgo1    May 14, 2010   Royal Oak

    205 i think was the final count!

     
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    JMSitton    March 13, 2010   Phoenix, AZ

    We started with 450, I refused to invite more than 350 (ha!), and we have about 250 coming! 

     
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    nicole18ashley    June 5, 2011   New Jersey

    wow you guys are having some HUGE weddings.

    We originally said 80 which will run us 11,000 just for the ceremony and reception including food and open bar (no decorations)

    but it's so hard to keep it that small!

    It's awkward when i run into people and they bring up the wedding, i feel bad about how many people we can't invite :(

     
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    snuggielove    October 2010   Pittsburgh

    Probably inviting 240 and hoping for 220!

     
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    Aubergold    May 2012   DC metro

    Probably 300-350

     
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    msgiraffe    May 2011   Chicago

    We're having a full sit down dinner for 175.

     

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