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I hope I'm not reading too much into this...

Who gets invited to a bachelorette party?

posted 2 years ago in Parties
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    Busy bee
    CHK    July 10, 2010   Northern Idaho

    All of the women I know on the guest list? Which means excluding FI's friends wives, who I've never met?

    It's a semi-destination wedding town on a lake. We're planning it for the Thursday before the Saturday wedding, and its possible that some people will drive in on Thursday...

    Thoughts?

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I only invited my close friends to the bachelorette party.  You definitely dont need to invite all the women on your guest list!  I invited my friends, my mom, FMIL and FSIL's because I am close with them all.

     
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    EvieMarie    February 2011  

    I say close personal friends!   The wives/gf's of his groomsmen are not invited to mine.  Even though it's a semi-destination wedding.   If I was one of those women, I wouldn't think twice about not being invited.  I think bachelorette parties are private/intimate!

     
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    HunnyBear    September 11, 2010   New Jersey

    I'd go with your MOH/bridesmaids and any other close friends that aren't part of the bridal party.  No one should expect to be invited to the bachelorette just because they're invited to the wedding...plus if you've never met these women I doubt they'd think twice about it.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Mine is only my girlfriends... no female relatives (except my step-sisters, who are bridesmaids), none of his groomsmen's wives or girlfriends, and no one I don't want to hang out with that night. ;) It's debatable whether the wedding is, but the bachelorette party is DEFINITELY your night! Invite who you want to spend your time with. :)

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i only had the girls in my bridal party.

     

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