who gets invited to intimate rehershal dinner and bridal shower

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: invite the girlfriends?
    bridal shower only : (1 votes)
    7 %
    rehershal dinner only : (7 votes)
    47 %
    both and just deal with it : (7 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 2
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    8720 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I wouldn’t invite them to the shower if you don’t want even though others may disagree. I would invite the one to the rehearsal dinner whose daughter is in the wedding because that just makes sense to me. 

    Post # 3
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    8720 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    My

    vote went for rehearsal dinner. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    1256 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Definitely invite to rehearsal dinner. However no need for the shower. 

    Post # 6
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    42469 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If you are inviting the SO’s of the other wedding party members to the rehearsal dinner, then they also must be invited.

    They really should also be invited to the shower. They are going to be family after you are married. If they feel about you, the way you feel about them, they may decline the invitation.

     

    Post # 8
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    1570 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    No one gets auto invite to shower (assuming it is only women).  If they have kids with the guys, they should get invite to RD. 

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