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I think we would both agree that he does.  He says it's because I'm spoiled, and I tell him it's his own fault!  There have been very few things that he won't budge on; in most cases, I figure if it's that important to him, he deserves to win.

I'm the same as MyFavorite, almost verbatim! He's always been the one to give, so I know that when he puts his foot down, he means it.

I had a talk with him about it recently tho. Anybody seen the episode of House where Wilson and Amber go to buy a new mattress? Long story short, she gets mad when he buys the one he thinks she wants. She claimed his past marriages failed because he *always* gave the woman what she wanted, and eventually came to resent it. So I talked to my FH about it to make sure he doesn't do the same!

My husband has the upper hand! I give in sooner.

I am a terrible fighter (I'm trying to work on it!) and tend to completely shut down so my husband is the one who "gives in"...or maybe it's more accurate to say he takes the first step at making up so that we can end up coming to a compromise/resolution that works for the both of us.

I give in more, but he gives in quicker when he knows he's wrong.

That's a tough one.  We don't argue that often.  I think we both give in but in different ways.  My fiance doesn't like to be confrontational.  I usually catch on to myself if I'm being irrational.  He'll remain calm, and in a way I feel like he's giving in by not fighting back.  Then I realize how stupid of an argument it is, and I give in as well.