(Closed) Who goes first for vows?

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: Who says their vows first?
    The Groom (he's the man) : (6 votes)
    55 %
    The Bride (ladies first) : (3 votes)
    27 %
    Whatever you prefer, it doesn't matter. : (2 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    When I got JoP married, my husband said his vows first. I plan on doing that for our formal wedding in June, too.

    Post # 4
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    3092 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Hmm good question!  We’re going to be writing out our whole ceremony so we’ll probably have to figure this one out too. 

    Post # 5
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    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Traditionally, the man goes first. However, unless you’re determined to stay traditional or your FI has a really strong preference, you can say the vows in whatever order the two of you want.

    Post # 6
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    6207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    He goes first

    Post # 7
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    3063 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    My husband went first.

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