Post # 1
Working on our ceremony script and can’t seem to decide who says their vows first? Him or me? Or can we do whatever we want? I sort of want to say mine first because I think I’ll probably tear up while he says his. But is one way the traditional way?
Post # 3
When I got JoP married, my husband said his vows first. I plan on doing that for our formal wedding in June, too.
Post # 4
Hmm good question! We’re going to be writing out our whole ceremony so we’ll probably have to figure this one out too.
Post # 5
Traditionally, the man goes first. However, unless you’re determined to stay traditional or your FI has a really strong preference, you can say the vows in whatever order the two of you want.