(Closed) Who has the higher sex drive… you or your S/O?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: So who has the higher sex drive?
    I do, definitely : (41 votes)
    27 %
    I do, probably : (13 votes)
    8 %
    It's about the same... : (28 votes)
    18 %
    S/o does, definitely : (40 votes)
    26 %
    S/o does, probably : (9 votes)
    6 %
    I would... except I'm on the pill and so now it's not so much : (5 votes)
    3 %
    I'm on the pill and I still have a higher sex than drive s/o : (4 votes)
    3 %
    I'm on the pill and I have a lower sex drive than my s/o : (10 votes)
    7 %
    I don't know? : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 4
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    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I’m on the pill, and I have the higher sex drive. It’s not dramatically different from my FI though, so we easily make it work.

    Post # 5
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    2493 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I do, definitely! I could do it all day, every day if he was able/willing, but it’s more like 3 times a week on a good week, for us… usually even less than that. He hates the thought of me masturbating, too which is funny–he’ll literally tell me “no” when I try to start things, sometimes, but gets jealous if he knows I’ve looked after myself, and says that I prefer BOB (my battery operated boyfriend) to him–which is a load of crap! I just tried climbing on top of you, and you said “no“, dumby!

    Post # 6
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    1850 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Since I went to another BC method, mine has dropped off. I used to wear him out. Now he has the higher drive.

    Post # 7
    Member
    290 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I have always had a high sex drive, i want it everyday and he gets a little frustrated with me soemtimes lol

    Post # 8
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    8464 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I thought I had a high sex drive, then I met my FI.  I’m usually good for once a day, but he’s like a 3-5 times a day if he can.  When I was on BC though, I definitely had a lower sex drive (and mood swings, headaches, etc).

    Post # 9
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    860 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    i would say it is about the same for us

    Post # 10
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    732 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I deffinatly have the higher sex drive…but im alot younger than my fiance so its to be expected lol he sitll has a high sex drive but im just like..wanting it all the time ;p

    Post # 11
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    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    My SO and I seem to have a pretty equally matched sex drive. He’s maybe a little higher than me, only because I have to deal with the rise and fall of my drive due to that lovely monthly gift mother nature likes to send.

    @brighteyedgirl:  I just don’t understand the insecurities some guys have about vibrators. Hello, real person > battery-operated plastic, HOWEVER, masturbation is important and healthy and as you said, sometimes he’s not into it when you are.

    Post # 12
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    2493 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @MissCalifornia:  I don’t understand the insecurities, either. Of course I’d rather be intimate with him than plastic/silicone, but when he turns me down, and I’m still raring to go, of course I’m going to do what I gotta do, lol.

    Post # 13
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    4322 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Mine is higher (I think), but the discrepancy is manageable. I am on BC pills and have been since before we started having sex.

    Post # 14
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    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    @brighteyedgirl:  Definitely! I dated a guy earlier this year who made a LOT of comments about how if I had “that thing” (his preferred name for my rabbit) why would I ever need him? Finally, enough was enough and I decided I *didn’t* need him – mostly because he was an insecure ninny haha.

    Not saying you should dump your DH, of course. But it’s just so silly! Guys just need their hands, but many of us women need a little something extra and why not?

    Post # 15
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    751 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I would say we’re about even, we like to keep it at at least 5x per week. FI will get all pissy if it’s been more than two days and most of the time so will I 🙂

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