who has the highest sex drive?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: who has the highest sex drive
    me! : (56 votes)
    55 %
    my partner! : (26 votes)
    26 %
    both! : (19 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 2
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    113 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Mine is a lot higher than his.

    Post # 3
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    2578 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Mine is soooo much higher than my DH’s. I’m constantly getting turned down, and it’s really starting to mess with my emotions (frustration, sadness, etc.).

    Post # 5
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    494 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Before marriage and living together it was me ….  Although I have toned down a bit since and we’re now more in sync without the routine of him getting annoyed and me feeling rejected

    Post # 6
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    339 posts
    Helper bee

    I wish I could find a man with a low sex drive, lol. I have hormonal issues so my sex drive is pretty much nonexistent (and I’m in my late twenties, boo).

    Post # 7
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    655 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB

    Mines is much higher.  Although we have talked about it plenty,  and he promises he’s not rejecting me. He claims he’s just been tired.  We’ll see if it improves after the wedding stress is over. I’m doubtful. 

    Post # 8
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    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 1975

    wanttobee:  We’re both equally in the mood pretty often. There are certain times in my cycle where I want it less, but that doesn’t last very long. We check-in over this topic, and we both feel satisfied and happy.

    I have had partners in the past, some with a larger sex drive (at that period in my life, I feel as though it was due to being on BCPs – which I had a decreased sex drive while taking).

    Post # 9
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    2578 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    wanttobee:  It has dwindled, for sure… when we first got together, we were matched up perfectly in that aspect, lol. My DH will be 36 in a couple of months, so maybe it is the age thing (he does always say, “We’re not teenagers anymore!”)… although I was hoping it was just a phase.

    Post # 11
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    100 posts
    Blushing bee

    Like a few PPs mine is generally higher than my SO’s, particularly now that I am off the pill – around the middle of my cycle (fertile days) I am ready for it at least twice a day…. my partner does not always share my enthusiasm lol 🙂 

    Post # 12
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    710 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    He does but mine had totally died for aggressive while I was sorting my mental health out. But it’s getting back of track 😉 usually it’s both of us when we aren’t too tired.

    Post # 13
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    74 posts
    Worker bee

    Mine is slightly higher…. But in saying that, our sex life is pretty regular. Been together 5yrs and the longest we have gone without is a week and a half – usually due to flu or illness… For me, eating well and keeping myself fit & healthy (looking after myself) keeps my libido high plus I feel good 🙂 

     

    Post # 14
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    1302 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    i feel like we’re equal. and it works out really well for the both of us hehe 😀 

    Post # 15
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    62 posts
    Worker bee

    brighteyedgirl: I know exactly how you feel!  It makes me feel like rejecting him when he asks for it so he can see how it feels.  It is an ugly feeling being shot down.  

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