(Closed) Who Hit on Who First?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who made the first move in your relationship
    I hit on my SO first! : (44 votes)
    47 %
    He made the first move! : (49 votes)
    53 %
  • Post # 3
    7904 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    I totally initiated the first encounter this time around. We dated for a few weeks 11 or 12 years ago and he made the first move, but this time we went out for drinks and were sitting on the beach goofing off and I just thought, hey, what’s there to lose and went in for the kiss.

    Post # 4
    1403 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I did!  I asked him to a date party.  He followed up very well, though.

    Post # 5
    5243 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I totally hit on my fiance first. I saw him at the gym and we started talking because I knew him through a friend from a long time ago. I went to do cardio and didnt see him leave.The next day I totally searched him on facebook through mutual friends we have and messaged him..the rest is history Laughing

    Post # 6
    9414 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I did. At a bar too…  He was sitting by himself at the bar and I was standing there just trying to get a drink, I was a little drunk (just had come from a wedding reception) so I just started talking to him because I thought he looked bored.  I believe I even said “why do you look so bored”

    And after we talked for hours there, I actually just grabbed his hand when it was closing time and told him he was coming with me Wink

    Post # 7
    225 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He did- I was walking from a conference and I noticed someone kind of looking at me. I look over and see this dapper dude, and he looks at me, and winks, and walks away. So naturally now I’m interested because WINKING is so old fashioned. So by the elevator he sort of made his way over to where my friend and I were, and we introduced ourselves. Very interesting first encounter.

    Post # 8
    986 posts
    Busy bee

    Totally me. I would say hi to him at lunch every day (we met in high school) and he would blush like crazy (which he still does, haha).

    Post # 9
    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    He made the first move by asking for my number.

    Post # 10
    846 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    well, neither really lol. i was at a tractor pull with one of my best friends, and he was also there with one if his best friends (who happens to be my cousin, and my friends brother-in-law.. confusing, i know). when i saw him i was convinced i had just found the most gorgeous man i’d ever seen. he caught me looking at him, and he was kinda already checking me out too, but we are both extremely shy so neither if us approached eachother. i asked my friend about him and he also ended up asking his friend about me, and his friend/my cousin ended up texting me that night to ask if he could give him my number. i said of course so we started texting the next day and decided to hang out the day after that, and have been inseparable since!

    Post # 11
    2823 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He made the first move I didn’t even notice him! haha.

    Post # 12
    9627 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    He talked to me first.  πŸ™‚  I responded.  πŸ˜‰

    Post # 13
    119 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    He played “hard to get” for 5 months before having a date with me!!!

    Post # 14
    1465 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I met my Fiance online he viewed my profile a couple of times so I sent him a greeting because I didnt want to be rude as I was closing my page and cancelling my membership. He responded as I was cancelling my membership I stopped to respond to him. He sent a heart felt email saying he couldnt believe I was single and why am I on the website. He was glad that I made the first move because he was nervous and afraid of rejection the rest is history.Kiss

    Post # 15
    264 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    He made the first move and I shot him down! He then played hard to get for a few months until I made the move that got us together πŸ™‚


    Post # 16
    72 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    we met on a dating website & he’s the one who hit on me… but i’m the one who asked him to be my boyfriend & i made the first move to kiss him πŸ™‚

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