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I can't vote 'cause there's no option for "Neither - we're having a dry spell!" lol
But usually, it's honestly close to 50/50. Though I wish it was more like 70 (him)/30. I prefer to be seduced! :)
Hmm. Both. Sometimes he tries to put the moves on me, and when I want to do it I usually will just start undressing and ask him if he wants to join me.
I would say 60/40. With me being the 60 ;)
I'd have to say it's pretty equal. . .or I try to keep it equal. He'd probably say it's closer to 60/40 him.
I'm probably 60% and he's probably 40%. Funny example from earlier this evening - I've been exhausted all week, but we haven't done it in a few days, and I wanted to but wasn't horny at all. Basically, he was up for it but also not feeling it in that moment. So I took my shirt off, he jumped off the couch and grabbed me, and that's how it started. I guess that's an example of me initiating, but nothing really happens until he grabs me.
I would say 90 him 10 me. But thats only because he is initiating all the freakin time. So I dont really ever have a chance to!
I couldn't check either really. 60-40 for me as well.
@PitBulLover: That's us too! Although BC pills also make my drive way lower than his so that also contributes to him initiating way more often than me. I often have to get warmed up into it (aka - I often don't really feel like sex until we get started with foreplay).
Usually always him. He loves it when I do, but like PitBullLover, he is always wanting sex! So I don't really get a chance to initiate on my own. I pretty much always want sex, so I've never turned him down. lol.
I probably do more than he does, but overall it's pretty even. I love it when he initiates though - I like feeling wanted and I love it when he sort of pounces on me. :) I know he likes it when I initiate though. Overall, I think our sex drives are pretty equal, so it's almost like we both initiate.
Him more then I, to put a number on it I would say 80% him, 20% me. But I am working on initiating more b/c he likes it :)
I'd say 70% him...mostly because we are in the mood at different times in the day. He wants it in the morning, and me at night...and he usually wins :)
Yes & Yes!
His is initiating ALL.THE.TIME. And I have a low sex drive for various reasons so, I too usually only get into it once the foreplay starts.
Sometimes I feel bad that I don't initiate more often, but... I just can't see me being all like "hey hun, you in the mood???" *wink* *drop the shoulder of my shirt to show a little skin*
I'm just not that girl... I'm awkward.
LOL. Im awkward too! I just feel plain ridiculous sometimes when I try to be sexy! I also have been having issues with low sex drive because of my BC so most of the time it him initiating. Im sure he would love it if I did more often though!
Him 98% of the time. My sex drive hasn't been the same since I got pregnant with our daughter but once he initiates I'm usually all in.
both. we each initiate in waves, but i'm pretty sure it turns out 50/50 overall.
It's so nice to see some initiate more than the guy! Initiating has always been a struggle for us, my SO is kind of shy about sex and I'm not at all. He's been initiating a lot more now though so that's good but for the first 4-5 years it was almost 90% me!
I initiate most often. It's sometimes frustrating because he has a lower sex drive than me, because I feel like a horn dog! But when he does initiate...it's magical. :)
It depends on the day we both do our fair share of jumping eachother lol
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Who is the one who initiates in yalls bedroom??
With us FI is the one that usually does..
So you or him!?