Post # 1
Ok I just reread my message and it made no sense so I’m rewriting it. I have no close friends anymore because I dont get out much, Im a stay at home mom and all my friends just didnt grow up when I did so they still party hard and get into trouble…so the only people I have to be bridesmaids is my sister and my 2 sister in laws that are ages 13 and 10. And my hubby(we are already married, and are finally having a ceremony and reception!:) has lots of friends at work that he has lined up for grooms men..ugh I feel so pathetic. Anyone in the same boat?
Post # 3
It’s totally fine to have your sisters as your bridesmaids. Are you sure there aren’t any friends you’d like to include? Even if your lifestyles are different, that shouldn’t affect their ability to be awesome bridesmaids.
Has your husband already asked his friends at work to be groomsmen? If not, he could always narrow it down to three and then ask the others to be ushers or something during the ceremony so that they are still honored but don’t create an uneven bridal party, and more importantly, don’t make you feel pathetic. Because you aren’t!
Post # 4
thanks. i will keep the one in mind see how it goes in the time before the wedding..but i just dont know if she will furfill the job of being a bridesmaid…hope so