(Closed) Who is more affectionate? You or your SO/FI/DH/DW?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who is more outwardly affectionate?
    My FI/SO/DH/DW is : (33 votes)
    53 %
    I am : (14 votes)
    23 %
    Were equally as affectionate : (14 votes)
    23 %
    I'm not sure : (1 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    979 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    My FI is way more affectionate.  He’s big on PDAs too which make me cringe.  Haha not that he’s trying to make out with me or anything but he has no problem kissing in the cereal aisle at the grocery store and I think that’s super weird.

    Post # 4
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    249 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    My FI is very affectionate. I catch myself pulling away sometimes because I tend to feel smothered. I try and not do that because I love him and I know he just likes being close. I am also a ‘sleep on your own side of the bed damn’t’ kind of girl lol.

    Post # 5
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    2269 posts
    Buzzing bee

    FI-to-be is affectionate, though pubically not as much as I would like. I am a very touchy-feely person (my love language is physical toich) so I would be happy to cuddle and kiss all day. He is more independent and likes to have his own space, it’s nice sometimes, when I need a bit of ‘me time’ he’s happy to oblige. When it comes to being in bed, he is overly affectionate, we have to cuddle up first before he can fall asleep, though I like to sleep in my own space.

    I’m more affectionate over all, though FI-to-be has his moments!

    Post # 6
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    1805 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    My fiancé says the most romantic cute things but I’m more a touchy feely affectionate. it works for us 🙂

    Post # 7
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    2254 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We’re both affectionate in different ways. In public, we both like to hold hands and kiss every now and then. We try to keep the PDA to a minimum. In private, we love to cuddle. I’m more of a night cuddler, and he’s more inclined to cuddle in the morning.

    Post # 8
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    1347 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    I’m not an affectionate person in general. Not touchy/feely person. So he is definitely more then me.

    Post # 9
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    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    He is! I’m getting there, but my ex was really not into displays of affection or romance, so this is taking some getting used to. I had a bit of trouble believing my SO at first when he’d do or say romantic things – kind of like Carrie reacting to the Russian in Sex and the City. I love love love how romantic and affectionate he is, though! During our last visit (LDR) I was over the moon the entire time.

    Post # 10
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    3063 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I’ve never been much of an affectionate person and my DH very much is! So we even eachother out, I think!

    Post # 11
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    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I voted wrong! I meant to say “I am” but accidently put that my FI was. Oops.

    Although it’s pretty even… when we’re physically together I’d say I’m more physically affectionate and he’s more verbally affectionate (which isn’t to say he isn’t physical, but it’s hard to top me when I costantly have my hands on him). So we’re even then. When we are long distance I am probably more verbally affectionate than him, which puts me in the lead! 

    Ah, I don’t know. He’s gotten so good in the past few months, so maybe we’re more even now!

    Post # 12
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    1425 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rosehill Community Center

    I’ve never really been a touchy-feely person, and have some weird thing about making sure I don’t intrude everyone else’s space, plus I’m fairly shy.  My FI isn’t terribly outwardly affectionate much, but more than me!  My parents thought that he liked me more than I liked him the first time they met him…  But I also think it is weird to be all over someone especially in front of your parents…

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