(Closed) Who is this woman?!?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My mom was the same way. i chalked it up to being long distance but as time went on its almost like she realized…”this is really happening” and let herself get excited!!

For your sake (and sanity) I hope she sticks around too!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

lmao i love the last line!

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

It must be a mom thing! I am two months away and my mom has jumped right in. It’s nice!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

My mom had a splurgey kind of attitude in the last months before the wedding too, it was fun – having conversations that I thought would be about cutting things from the catering menu and having her say “Nah let’s add things instead!”

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My mom is helping us pay for the wedding and it seems like at least once a week I have to remind her that its not her wedding.  She got mad when she found out I wanted to pick things like flowers & decorations based on what I like.  Also got upset when I started talking to the bridesmaids about dresses without her input.  She’s only paying for the food so I told her she can have a say over that and every time we make a decision of I finish a sample of something I share it with her but still its never enough.  She got divorced from my dad last year and had a bf before the divorce was even finalized.  It’s getting pretty bad as we get closer to the wedding, so I’ve started just saying if you want that so bad have a wedding yourself, lol.  I understand she’s excited but I’m also being careful not to compromise on anything that is really important to me, as I don’t want to regret my choices later in life.

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