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Who paid/is paying for your bouquet?

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    lampshade127    March 27   Houston

    I have read several places that the groom/his family are responsible for the cost of the bride's bouquet and the boutonierres.

    Is this pretty standard? Who is paying for yours?

    Thanks!

     

    Sorry that I put this in the wrong place!

     
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    DaisyBride    June 1, 2009  

    I think this is an outdated tradition.  My husband and I covered flower costs (and my MOH's mom made my bouquet :)

    It's so hard to tell which traditions are still in full swing and which are outdated!!

     
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    futuremrsreed    June 26, 2010   Davis, CA; wedding in Reno, NV

    We are paying for all of our flowers, but then we aren't having much family input for paying for things anyway unless they volunteer.

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    FMIL has offerd x-amount of money that we're just putting towards the costs in general.  In theory, it's going towards flowers, I guess.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    my parents are paying. i've never heard of that.

     
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    sewing    July 2010   SF Bay Area / Oahu

    FI and I are paying for flowers, but his aunts will be doing the arranging.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm paying for mine. I've never heard of this being the groom's family's job, especially since pretty much all the flowers (including bridesmaid bouquets and corsages, on top of the bridal bouquet and boutonnieres) generally come from a single florist... why would there be different people paying for it?

     
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    ProudPeacockBride    August 13, 2011   Washington

    I think, now a days, those old traditions aren't holding their weight! There are new-age situations like unique finances and non-traditional families that make these customs obsolete. We're paying for 90% of our wedding ourselves, so we're doing our own flowers!

     
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    farfromordinarybride    December 31, 2010   PA

    we are paying for all of flowers ourself.

     
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    realeastcoaster    July 11, 2009   Canada

    I had no idea this was a tradition...we paid for the wedding bouquet, etc., ourselves.

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    My parents paid for teh flowers, but I paid for my own bouquet because it had to be ordered separately. 

     
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    Jessica Snaptacular Photos    April 26, 2008   Houston, TX

    My husband's family paid for the flowers, but my mom secured the deal because she has a great relationship with the florist.

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    No one in particular.  We just have one general wedding fund that everyone contributed to what they could.  Everything is paif for from that fund so there's really no saying who is paying for what.

     
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    budgetbeautiful    9/26/09   Fredericksburg, VA

    I paid for all the flowers myself.

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    This is outdated!

    We are paying for the cost of all of our flowers!

     
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    Miss Sapphire    December 2009   Seattle

    My parents are paying for the flowers.  I've actually never heard of this tradition.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    My parents are just because they're paying for all of the flowers.

     
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    I don't think it's really standard anymore.  FI and I are paying for the flowers... IF we have them!

     
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    sleepylittlesailor    november 21, 2009  

    I'm paying.

    And I've never heard of this "tradition."

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    We're paying for all of the flowers... but oddly enough my Mother dictated some stuff I'm not into buying.  Like she insists that my uncle (who's close to my age and we've grown up like siblings) get a boutonierre... not gonna happen.  I know its only like $20 but then we'd have to give one to all of my FI's Aunts and Uncles and then we'd be broke! 

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    My mama!

    She's a florist & her shop is doing all my flowers :)

    I've never heard of this tradition... haha it would be nice if they'd pay up though!

     

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