(Closed) Who says this to a bride on her wedding day?!

posted 3 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Many people in this world have lost all sense of decency, what a sad decline for our future.

Post # 3
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: Frangipani Function room

That is sooo horrible! How dare they behave that way. I’m also a plus size bride and I tell you what if someone did that to me I’d go bridezilla on their ass! 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

ZebraPrintMe: they’re the ones that have to live with themselves. if someone called me fat, i’d give it to them right back. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

It’s just awful that those people did that to her. I can’t imagine doing such a thing to someone, honestly. I just don’t know how they do it. 

I’m glad that she realized she needed to make some changes. It’s unfortunate that it was her wedding pictures that showed her how unhealthy she was, but at least she got healthy before it was too late. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

tksjewelry:  There hasn’t really been a decline, we’re just hearing about incidents like these much, much more than we would have before. 

The future will be fine, because there isn’t much that’s new when it comes to human behavior. Stuff like this has always happened. 

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Ugh. Some people need to be kicked.

Whatever your size, I’m sure your guests already know what you look like, and they accept you as you are. So does your husband-to-be. As long as you look happy, they will notice and think you’re beautiful. 🙂

Post # 9
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Busy bee

It takes a special kind of scumbag to fat shame a woman on her wedding day. 

It doesn’t matter if these people think she needed to lose weight, their opinions don’t matter. Neither do the commenters. If you can’t muster up a “you look great!” then keep your fucking mouth shut and worry about your own imperfections, like a piss poor personality.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

ZebraPrintMe:  Yeah, some people will take that message from it. That’s just how some people are, unfortunately. There’s nothing new about that, though. 

I do agree with some of the comments that can’t really be described as “sympathetic”, because I think they made some good points, but, yes, many of the comments were just nonsense.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

I’m guessing there’s more to this story than was told- local people just gathered around the wedding car outside her house waiting for a glimpse? Just random people on the street? I bet a lot of them were neighbors and probably didn’t like her for some unmentioned reason

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: A very pretty church.

ZebraPrintMe: Someone with no manners or grace. End of.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

The way it’s written, those hecklers might read that article now and be convinced that they did her a favor or saved her life, instead of taking a look at their own actions and how they treat others.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: A very pretty church.

Cyanfire:  It’s the Daily Mail, hardly journalism at its finest 

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