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posted 5 months ago in Rings
  • poll: Who should pay for the wedding bands?
    You each pay for your own : (5 votes)
    19 %
    He buys them both : (5 votes)
    19 %
    You by them both : (0 votes)
    Which ever you both decide and are happy with : (17 votes)
    63 %
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    shannonmykayla    July 14, 2012   Burlington, Ontario

    Hello lovelybees I was just wondering, who should buy the wedding bands? Should I buy my own and my fiance's seeing that he bought my engagement ring and is going to upgrade it or???? He's paying for the majority of the wedding, I'm just taking care of some decorating things, and extra details. So I was just wondering if there is a rule of thumb or what? Also if I buy my hubby's ring I'll get him something nice to wear when he's not working, and something casual and strong when he is. He would just get himself something plain and I think he deserves something nice :D

    Your thoughts and comments would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks so much!!!

    Happy Holidays/Hannuka/Yule

     
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    KatNYC2011    September 24, 2011   London, UK (american expat)

    We did it so I bought his and he bought mine since they were "gifts" to each other on the wedding day.

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    I don't think there is a rule of thumb or anything. Just depends on the couple! I know plenty of bees have posted that they bought them or they split the cost with their SO's. Other's SO's bought them their selves. If you want to buy them I don't see anything at all wrong with that! :-) 

     
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    bookworm88    August 4, 2012  

    I think I'll buy his and he'll buy mine?

     
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    jocember    August 17, 2013   Syracuse, NY

    I think it depends on the couple. Traditionally, I believe the bride buys the groom's, and the groom buys the bride's. But if that doesn't work with how you are financing the wedding, it's pretty much up to you.

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    Our money was already "joint" before the wedding so we bought both our rings together!

     
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    SarahSmilesDec28    December 28, 2011   New Brunswick, Canada

    We bought our rings together as well, since we have sort of joined finances.  Also, mine was a lot more expensive then his, so it didn't really seem fair to not split the total cost.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    Since at the time we bought our bands we were already deep into wedding planning and also trying to buy a house so our money was very transparent (we kept seperate accounts until we got married). We set a budget for wedding bands and just went shopping. We purchased them together, but I think I may have been the one to actually write the check.

     
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    Mrs.Estep    December 11, 2010   VA

    @Future Mrs. Martin Also this is my answer. We bought them together.

     
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    MrsProf    January 7, 2012   Georgia

    @Future Mrs. Martin: This is how it happened for us too.

     
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    ladyartichoke       UK

    Traditionally the bride buys the grooms and the groom buys the brides.  But there's no option for that.

     
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    spaneshal    October 19, 2012   UK

    I'm actually uncertain of etiquette on this, I believe you just buy each other the rings, which essentially makes it a joint purchase if you are to collaborate your finances once (or maybe you do already!) your married anyway.

     
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    All In    November 1, 2011  

    Etiquette/tradition says that each buys the other's, I believe. 

     

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