(Closed) Who should get an invitation?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Give the cousins a separate invite only if they live in a different household.

Maybe think about cutting the plus ones?  We are only inviting married, engaged, living together, dating for more than 1 year.  No flavor of the month can come to my wedding! When it comes to budget people will understand.

Post # 4
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3521 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You might think about grouping your invites in waves, since you’ve got a ways to go.  First wave are all definitely coming, plus people who may or may not.  If your RSVP is early enough, you can invite a second wave of friends, locals who wouldn’t mind getting an invitation a little later.

Post # 5
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5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

DH has a VERY large family so this is what we did….

We did immediate family: Parents, Siblings, Grandparents

and friends that we’re close too

Also, He is very close with a handful of cousins, which I too know b/c we all serve in our Young Adults group at Church…. so we invited them.

But not their parents or any other Aunts/Uncles

We did +1 for Bridal Party (if they were already in a relationship with their +1)

and for Married and Engaged guests… otherwise no +1… we didn’t want/have funds for people to get a date just for the wedding.

We made alot of family mad (all on DH side) but it worked for us and our Day was GREAT!

Tip: You can’t please everyone… believe me.. you’ll try, but it’s not possible so you and your FI get together, see what works for ya’ll, and support each other in that decision, and stick too it.

goodluck =)

Post # 6
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1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh yes, large families, can make wedding planning so much fun.

My list is just over 80 people, 4 of those being couple friends, the rest family. He has more friends invited but he has a smaller family. Our total list is 160. Luckily I’m friends with most of his friends so this works well.

We did grandparents, parents, siblings, aunts, uncles & cousins. I m close to most of my cousins though.

+1’s only for married, engaged or long term relationships. So I have a lot of people invited solo for my side.

In a perfect world we will get about 40 no’s. But I guess we will see.

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