(Closed) Who speaks during sex?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Who speaks during sex?
    He does, I don't : (6 votes)
    7 %
    Neither of us speak : (16 votes)
    20 %
    He doesn't, I do : (13 votes)
    16 %
    Hell, we have a conversation! : (15 votes)
    19 %
    Sometimes we both do, but not much : (31 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
    3787 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    I’d like more conversation.  But I can’t help but say how I’m feeling…  a couple of my previous sexual partners were all for the talking, so it feels natural to me.

    And I’m a big talker too!

    I think sex is sooo different from one partner to the next too.

    ETA: I voted: he doesn’t, I do.  Never asked if he’d prefer the silent treatment though.  I’ve asked him to speak up more, but I can tell he feels awkward so I don’t push him.

    Post # 4
    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Neither of us say much of anything (besides moans and gasps and the like).  DH is more likely to talk than I am though.

    Post # 5
    3452 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We both do.  We talk about how it feels and such.  As long as it relates to what is going on, it’s ok. 

    I have a funny story about talking during sex.  When Fiance and I first got together, I remember being really nervous with him at first.  I specifically recall on night that I was worried whatever I was doing wasn’t right or it wasn’t good enough for him.  So I was asking him questions, but it wasn’t the kind of heat of the moment questions like “does that feel good?” or whatever.  At one point, when we were switching positions, he stopped what he was doing, sighed and said “I’m trying to make love to you here, but you won’t stop talking.” LOL

    Post # 6
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    He doesn’t usually say anything. However, he likes when I dirty talk so I do. When he dirty talks it just makes me laugh. We don’t discuss how our days were or what I’m making for dinner or anything like that. 

    However, now that I’m pregnant, it’s less sexy talk and more logistical conversation.

    Post # 7
    1994 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I voted “we hold a conversation”.  We both like to talk dirty while we’re having sexy time.  Sometimes this even involves role play.

    Post # 8
    790 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Talking is a major part of our foreplay and not just about sex, but we tease, ask questions, tell stories (about sex) and sometimes just fantasize outloud. All while we’re doing other things, nice & slowly 😉

    Post # 9
    2247 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I voted that I do, and he doesn’t.  Fiance is very silent in bed.  He doesn’t moan or anything.  I normally say things like, “Don’t stop” or, “That feels so good!”  When I reach the big O, I start saying all kinds of things and I really don’t realize what is coming out of my mouth, but a lot of the times it is really dirty.

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