Who the f*** does that?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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657 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

How does he get invited then if you and your husband don’t like him? It seems like no one likes him

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Umm… why the hell is he at your house?  Blacklist him.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think you need to ban this guy from your house, he sounds awful.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yeah, I wouldn’t invite rhis guy iver anymore…

Post # 7
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817 posts
Busy bee

Yeaaa just don’t let anyone invite him over anymore.  That’s ridiculous.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Doralise:  Its sounds as though no one really likes him.. can you just speak to your friends and make sure no one invites him? doesn’t mean he can’t ever hang out but other people shouldn’t be inviting him to YOUR house if neither your FI or you like him or want him around.. Your house, your rules!

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

Who the f*** lets an idiot like this keep coming over? Stand up to him. Or if you can’t tell your FI to stand up to him and tell him to not come around because he’s disrespectful and adds nothing to your group. I wouldn’t want “company” like that around. Some people can’t take hints and you need to TELL them.

Post # 11
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161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

You husband should tell him bluntly but politely that his behavouir is eratic and not appropriate. You wish him well but you can no longer continue the friendship. You are in different places in your life and right now you feel it is doing more damage than good to continue with something that is not making you or your wife comfortable. Please, accept that this is how we feel and respect our decision. (spelling is awful but i write a neat little speech)    

Post # 12
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1987 posts
Buzzing bee

Yeah, I would pretty much let everyone know, ‘hey, don’t bring X with you–he’s a dick’.

On another note–congrats on your vow renewal! 🙂

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

nessdawwg:  

+1000 Boundaries need to be set with troublesome friends and family. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - TTC #2

This is very simple: tell all your friends not to invite the guy. If he still comes then stop hosting and have another friend host. What if he came over and spilled beer on your dress!?!?! Don’t let him near your house!!!!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Doralise:  I’m sorry, but at this point it’s your own fault. It’s your house and this guy is rude. Don’t let him in the door. Demand that he leave. It isn’t rude to kick out someone who wasn’t invited and nobody wants there. Stand up for yourselves and put your foot down. 

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